Why would a guy remove me from Snapchat because I left him on seen for a few hours?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy we hung out at a rave and hooked up then the next morning he was texting me but then mostly sending snap selfies I left him on seen for a few hours then he removed me

[strawberrybaby3]

You answered your own question. Because you left him on seen.

[Asker]

I think it’s immature to do that though I could’ve been busy or anything. Should I reach out or just leave it be

[strawberrybaby3]

Yes you could reach out if you are really interested and just apologize and say you didn’t mean to ignore him

[Sasha0426]

@strawberrybaby3 Can’t people have lives anymore?

[strawberrybaby3]

@Sasha0426 read the reply I left on your question. This is a different scenario. What they have is brand new, and she left him on seen for hours. When you do that right from the beginning, you show the other person you are not interested, or it would be understandable that they take it that way because they don’t know your habits. It’s different if you’ve been talking for a few weeks and someone does that. But she is giving an impression right from the beginning of not being interested.

[Sasha0426]

I can go hours without talking to someone. I don’t find it a big deal.

[Sasha0426]

If I can, I believe everyone else can too. Y’all just gotta be stronger than that.

[strawberrybaby3]

@Sasha0426 you don’t seem to really understand what I’m saying. Sure, I can go hours without talking to someone as well. But when you’ve JUST started talking to someone, if you go hours without replying or leave them on seen, you’re never going to get anywhere and they’ll most likely assume you aren’t interested.

[Sasha0426]

A few hours isn’t that bad. If I don’t hear from said person in that amount of time, I’m not going to worry about it. I’m not going to cut them off just like that. I’ll give them a chance first.

[Sasha0426]

People just to relax and quit assuming the worst all the time. It’s going to cause you anxiety and that’s not going to do you any good.

[Sasha0426]

I honestly believe what he did was immature because he didn’t give her a chance to explain herself. At least give said person a chance and let them apologize before deciding to cut them off completely.

[Sasha0426]

People want you to be glued to your phone at all times. You have to revolve your time around them and make them your top priority.

[Sasha0426]

They want you to ignore all your responsibilities. You’re not allowed to be busy.

[spartan55]

Easy come easy go. Communicating on stupid Snapchat is part of the problem.

[Asker]

I think the first part should be my mantra regarding the situation. He’s clearly immature and wasn’t that into me or is just trying to get my attention. Because leaving on seen for a few hours I could’ve been busy, or anything.

[BourbonAndBacon]

He moved on

[Asker]

Just because I left him on seen for a few hours? Immature

[BourbonAndBacon]

Leaving someone on seen for a few hours a time waster. It shows you're not that interested.

[Sasha0426]

@BourbonAndBacon Meaning we can’t have a life and our time has to revolve around said person.

[BourbonAndBacon]

@Sasha0426 Meaning if you were interested in him you would've replied. He took the fact that you ignored his messages as no interest on your part so he moved on. He isn't going to waste his time perusing without receiving some indication of interest from you.

[Sasha0426]

I’ll remember to be glued to my phone 24/7. Even when I’m working.

[Sasha0426]

Because he’s more important than anything else.

[BourbonAndBacon]

If you were actually busy you wouldn't check messages. You're not for him. Accept it and move on

[Sasha0426]

You’re right. I’ll make him my top priority.

[Sasha0426]

Hell, I’ll ignore all my responsibilities just for him if that’s what he wants.