So I've been dating this guy for 6 months almost now. I really like him however sometimes I question if he likes me at times. His temper is the worst I've ever seen , whenever he gets mad at me he screams and yells and curses at me and other around him if things don't go his way. We can be anywhere and even driving and he's calling everyone a B word. And I expressed that I do get offended when he gets in these rages enspcilly when he's calling other women the B word when im in his presence. But there's nothing I can do to calm him down , he only explodes on me till sometimes I do get emotional , slmas the phone on me and will refuse to talk to me. I try to hold back the tears and emotions but It gets really intense. And when I do get down , he never acknowledges my feelings. He even went as far as telling me I make it hard to love, and that's been on my brain forever. I don't know if he's the one for me. Last week we went out to eat at a small Itallian restaurant and he said he didn't know anything on the menu so he stopped talking to me for several hours. And I kept asking what I did to upset him. And he said I don't know what I want. All I want to know is it me. I do everything I can to make him happy and he's so mean. So when I tell him he dose hurt my feelings with the mean things he dose and says , he gets extremely angry at me and tells me to get over myself. Do you think it's possible that this man could like me?
I’m sorry to say at 6months he is screaming at you it’ll only get worse. This is a major red flag.
This isn’t just a dating thing, it’s a life thing…. Don’t let anyone EVER scream at you unless it’s “LOOK OUT RUNAWAY BUS!!!”
Besides that you need to know that no one has the right to scream at you. No one.
In relationships it only gets worse with time.
Hope you do the right thing…. Good luck.
By the way I’m talking from experience.
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What difference does it make whether he thinks he's in love with you or not? Jeez or if control and is not fit to be a partner to anyone until he learns to control his temper.
Break up with him this instant. You told him multiple times how much it bothers you when he explodes like that. Seems like he doesn’t give two shits whatsoever. If he did, he would apologize and try working on himself.
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I think it's likely you have a domestic abuser starter kit. Dump him today.
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