So what dose it mean when a guy says he love you after 4 months of not talking?

[thekpopweebchild]

So I known this guy for 10 months and we didn't talk for 4 months and I'm just really confused and he didn't reply for 5 days.

[Bethany22]

Guys often need a period of time alone to realize their feelings for a woman they have been going out with steadily. The length of time they need alone differs from one guy to the next, but all you can do in this situation is to remember to not make him feel guilty for not talking to you, as that could unnecessarily sabotage the relationship. He probably doesn't realize how much time has passed, so just act friendly and receptive to him.

[thekpopweebchild]

I just think he trying to lead me on when we was talking back then he always say he busy

[Bethany22]

Yes it could be that too.

[Floura]

It is totally not worth it but it is in your discretion if you want to pursue that regardless of the coincidences. At first I thought that he might have looked (been with) at other girls and realised that you were the one for him after seeing that the market isn’t all that great but seeing as you are a seventeen year old female, he’s probably just trying to get back into your pants?

[thekpopweebchild]

i'm not I did send him a goodbye text for good because its a waste of time

[GallopAcrossEurope]

If he didn't talk to you for 4 months and only after that said he loves you, he is probably going through something rn

[thekpopweebchild]

well I reach out first he didn't reply in 5 days I think he going to disappar again

[exitseven]

It has taken him that long to work up the nerve to say it.

[thekpopweebchild]

lol damn for real thought

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Guy13]

that sounds insincere to me...

[thekpopweebchild]

I was thinking the same thing to be honest

[Guy13]

It is sad to be this way but he has not given you any other option. It is like he needs or wants something...

[thekpopweebchild]

thats why I send him a text message saying goodbye for good he always use to say he busy even when I gave it my all he still didn't reply

[Guy13]

You are doing the right thing now too. I did the right thing in the beginning as he had a good thing. He mistreated and blew a good thing. A few words "out the blue" is not going to make your pain go away. I doubt he will learn anything either. He probably will be more charming now.

[thekpopweebchild]

omg I was thinking that to like relationships are bulit off commutation

[Avicenna]

That’s crazy- he doesn’t love you!

[thekpopweebchild]

thats what I was thinking