It’s not a big deal I’m just curious…. I'm not dating this guy but we do relationship like things. He thinks I'm talking to another guy besides him or thinks there's another guy I’m messing with when there's not. I've tried to convince him that it's not but he won't believe it.
Have you had a change in the way you treat him or act around him? If you are engaging and friendly and then you start acting distant and aloof that is a sign a woman is getting her attention from other men.
If a woman is always on her phone and texting others while with a guy and acts protective of the phone that is a clear sign a woman is engaging with other men.
Asking her is stupid.
No woman is EVER going to confess she's getting with other men. If they are they'll ALWAYS lie about it. Any man who ever suspects anything should just be chill, don't act as if you notice anything and begin playing detective and monitoring for clues.
If you blurt out "are you seeing someone else?" they'll always lie and say no, guilt you for not trusting them or being insecure and they'll take things more underground with the other guy.
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Well. You need to explain to him that you’re not in a exclusive relationship and if that’s what he’s wanting then he needs to be clear about it.
Some people don’t communicate anything and one person will think something and the other won’t. He may even think he’s in a committed relationship with you.
If you know for a fact you’re not talking to another guy and he keeps accusing you. There isn’t much you can do. Sometimes, you just have to move on from someone. Because you can’t convince them of anything. A lot of times cheaters project who they are onto their partners. So while they’re cheating. They’re accusing their partner of doing what they’re doing. Cheaters seem to think everyone cheats.
Because the majority of the time there is someone else. And we usually have the proof to prove it. Everytime i asked was there someone else, its because i already had the proof but waited for the guy to admit it. When they don’t, i lay the proof out and then it all comes spilling out. So ask yourself, is there anything you’ve done that he could have possibly found out about? You’re not in a relationship so you don’t owe eachother commitment but the least you could share is the truth
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'I'm not dating this guy, but we do relationship type things'
Translation: we are fuckbuddies
This is funny the first thing most women default to when something goes wrong with their man it's 'he must be with someone else'. Now you're going to act all righteous because this guy is saying it? Yeah okay.
Clearly the dude doesn't understand what nsa/friends with benefits/not dating means. Maybe you should remind him.Because he knows that most of the time, there IS someone else.
Just because you're "dating one guy", doesn't mean there isn't millions of other men in the world.
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