Why do guys have such a stigma against women?

Question

Like not all women are hoe's. But everything I read on here, by a man is super offensive. Like bro that's why you'll never get a good girl because you think like that.

glennos89 · Accepted Answer

The reason for that is probably because from a guys perspective... Woman haven't evolved over the the last few decades in a very positive way compared to how woman back then where.

A lot of woman these days aren't exactly the type of woman we like to be with to build a family with. Some woman these days are verbally annoying, complain to much, are way to materialistic and some of them consider men to be walking purses, and all the fake stuff, like cosmetics and surgery's is also not something we prefer as a guy. All the fake shit woman wear and want these days is very unattractive for a lot of guys.

Luckily not all woman have evolved in that way so thank God for that 🙏
But the majority of them aren't exactly wifey material anymore sadly🤷‍♂️

The worst thing of all is that they think they are high value woman when in fact they are not at all high value anymore to us guys. We have sex with them but that's it. Most men wouldn't consider marrying any of them most likely.

Not every woman have become like that like I said but the woman are on this highway which makes them less desirable in a guys perspective of how to prefer there wife's to be but woman don't seem to understand that because they are to busy with themselves to notice it sadly.

The average guy out there have a very hard time finding a woman they wanne build a family with because most good woman are already taken and the other woman are Targeting higher-class dudes.

So men are at a point right now that they are fed up with it. A lot of guys are giving up on the whole dating thing completely and choose to stay single instead of getting hurt time after time after time because they can't find the right one.

Personally I haven't given up completely yet, but I also start to think wether it's in my best interest perhaps to live a single lifestyle asswell because finding the woman I'm attracted are rare to find these days and Im kinda done putting loads of effort into dating woman, when the end result is always the same... Waste of energy, waste of money and and wasting my piece of mind.

I don't know... I just hope woman will start to realise they aren't making themselves more desirable to men the way things are going these days... Its a sad thing to see to be honest

love_conquers_lust · Accepted Answer

@mimi_ox This site was cofounded by a immigrant from Turkey in St. Louis. It attracts a lot of bored and lonely men. The internet unveils people’s filters. There’s a lot of groomers and conditioners on here. COUNT ME AS ONE OF THEM!! Except I’m quite literally telling you to stay away for SOUND advice from this site if you don’t have a baseline. The input you get from the outside world will be better than the theoretical fantasy crap on here. There is a LOOOOOOT of racism and sexism here. Frustrated men, mostly of different minorities striking out with women in real life. Most of these guys here don’t have the balls to act like this around women in the States because it will beget more of the same for them, rejection. People like @ManOnFire are one such individual. Many actual women on here have figured that out and actually fuck with them. The downside is actual, confused younger women come on here and it’s the last place they should go without a real solid foundation.

It’s not all bad. Some of the topics not related to sex or relationships are perfectly fine.

But, ironically, the last people you should listen to are GUYS on those two topics. I don’t mind throwing myself under the bus because I get a kick out of fucking with them too trying to mend their broken souls. It’s again, ironically, probably a safer bet to listen to REAL girls on this site who are in real relationships. A general rule of thumb is if it’s sexist or racist, it probably is toxic bull shit.

WhiteSandyBeach · Accepted Answer

This site is in NO WAY a representation of the real world. In the real world, girls and guys line up in long lines the rain to get into dance clubs. Nothing has changed.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Men hate women but they deal with us just to get some pussy. It's honestly fucked up. Reasons why it's better to be with a woman

ManOnFire · Answer

Or maybe men have become more conscientious and self-aware from their own experiences with women, and they want to make sure they don't go through that again. That is the difference I can say exists between men and women. Most men learn from their experiences with women and don't repeat sex and dating mistakes as often as women do, and they can actually talk about what they went through and what they learned. Women on GaG are just angry because men developed this awareness and learned their lesson, and they don't like hearing that their gender has been shitty with men just as much as they complain about the men, yet pretend they don't.

ohsheeT · Answer

There are quite a few men on here that I believe that are women haters

Either their mom treated them bad or a girl turn them down
So it seems like they enjoy taking it out on all women

I think a lot of it is a power trip they're feeding their own egos and it really kind of sucks because they actually ruin gag in a lot of different ways

But I look at it as they're just trying to show you exactly who they are and why you don't want to even communicate with them because there's going to do nothing but argue with you.
So in a lot of different ways it's good for women to read the answers did some of these guys are giving because in real life that's who they are too and for me that I would want to stay away from that person

MikeTheBartender · Answer

You said everything you read? Is this online? Your browser history is trending you, if you started googling more positive things it would trend it more positively. I wouldn't worry too much about this. I work with a lot of men from bartending to official businesses, trust me we are not all like that. Answer mine if you have a sec.

What is your vision of heaven?

Lycirian · Answer

Because the system now a very long time works for women not men anymore.

Example you got hundred million dollars and Mary a men which got two hundred million dollars. After getting a child Ou divorce him and get half his money and the child. Now the men left with nothing.
Men wants a mother for his child and respect not more.

We don't need you to make money or feel good. That's the truth which women doesn't understand.

HippoDino · Answer

If you know how to read and spend 10 minutes scrolling through opinions you will find there's plenty of men who don't hate women. I don't know why people like to generalize based on seeing a few people who act a certain way. Obviously there's men who hate women, but believe it or not most don't.

Jpisme · Answer

Well if you want my opinion. The guys taking offense to the question are likely the guys who are completely disrespectful to women and talk ignorant about women every time they're with their buddies. It makes them feel better about being dogs themselves as they treat women like a piece of meat. Truth is there are more bad men and women than there are good unfortunately. Men are just more open about their ignorance because it makes them feel like big bad cool guys.

Anonymous · Answer

The same reason why a lot of women trash men. It works both ways. There’s screwed up people on both sides. It took me a long time to finally meet someone after I thought I was w a “good girl” as you put it. But she decided she wanted to cheat, get pregnant then not go to college. She ended up single w 6 kids from 4 different men. It works both ways.

Anonymous · Answer

Get a good girl? I walked away from dating and relationships decades ago for exactly the reasons you're complaining about. As for men tricking some women, that can only happen if sex is being treated casually or they have no enforcement of boundaries.

Shamalien · Answer

It’s sad that many men have become so jaded as to stereotype all women.

but foreal it is a lot of women…especially in the big cities. As a teen in the late 2000s / early 2010s it was already pretty degenerated and it only got worse. I probs hung out with the wrong crowd too tho to be fair

Staximus · Answer

There are some jerks on here but every guy on here is not offensive

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

So you don't like it when you read a man generalizing that all women are hoes, but you can generalize that everything you read by a man is super offensive. I'm sorry, but I'm not sure where I've offended you, and I post a great deal.

Sunssong · Answer

I think many guys just don't feel like society cares about them and their issues; so they rebel harder against anything that doesn't acknowledge them.

Sonorous · Answer

A lot of people harbor hate because they're emotional.

Yannae · Answer

I am interested in putting in time and answer this question. But I need you to reply. A like won't do. If you really want an answer, you have to respond to their opinion. It's better to come to a clearer understanding.

strateguy632 · Answer

if "everything I read on here, by a man is super offensive" then the problem is you oversensitivity.

OddBeMe · Answer

Because we can. And the demand is still there. Stop allowing guys to have a stigma and get away with it.

Billlewis · Answer

I think it's largely because it's so difficult for men to have sex with women nowadays.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Many people base their assumptions for the future upon the exceeding small sample they have experienced. Worse, the negative experiences generally overwhelm any good ones, skewing it even more.

Anonymous · Answer

Which are you the pot or the kettle? It doesn't matter they're both black. So we're just going to pretend that your gender doesn't do the same thing to men on here REPEATEDLY. Or is that different? Is that's just fair game and OK to you?

AngryCarl2 · Answer

This site gets more like a misogynist subreddit every day. I don't find that reflected in RL fortunately.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Perhaps you are just overly sensitive. it is women that always being offensives towards men

Anonymous · Answer

if im offensive its because i am what i am. by the way i find it troubling when someone starts a sentence with "like" . Call me olde fashioned but.. ye

DextroShade · Answer

I don't hate all women just the modern "empowered" feminist whores. Traditional women are wonderful.

BigDog1989 · Answer

Same reason christians hate jews and muslims

Sunnybeach123 · Answer

Yes, a lot of hateful guys on here. I'm sorry so many women have to put up with their shit.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I have never seen a man actually make that argument.

YAsQuen · Answer

women face no advercity throughout their lives which makes them void of accountability. They behave like children more often than not.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see that here often. I see the opposite where men are praising women and women bashing men

gamerboy1x · Answer

Sorry im here for the exp loll

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

YEAH BUT ARE WE WRONG MOST OF THE TIME? NO

_no_one_ · Answer

its sigma

jahaims · Answer

Why do SOME guys*

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