Can handsome man be a incel?

[Anonymous]

I

get compliments from few girls think I'm handsome but I don't see myself handsome I never have girlfriend in my life. I tried go to bar and dance. Most girls avoided me. It make me feel incel.

Updates

6 mo

I never said about violence. I just feel I'm incel in America only. I'm thinking about being passport bro

[Billlewis]

Of course we can be, and please -- stop painting us all with the same brush -- only a very small percentage of incels are bitter, angry or prone to incite violence. Those are the only ones you hear about, but most of us are kind, caring, compassionate guys.

[Billlewis]

And when I say that, I don't mean you personally, but the majority of people who talk about incels on the internet. The term 'incel' is an abbreviation of exactly what it is -- a person, almost always a male, who is involuntarily celibate, meaning that they badly want sex with a woman, but for any number of reasons are completely unable to do so. That's all, nothing more.

[Asker]

I understand completely

[TheSpaceGnome]

Incel stands for involuntarily celibate, its any person, male or female, that wants sex but isn't having any. So anyone who's single and not sleeping around is an incel. Most single people are incels. It says nothing about their or looks.

[TheSpaceGnome]

their character or looks*

[LazerBean]

You don't look bad. You probably just need to take some social skills classes.

[Asker]

I'm deaf in hearing world it kind of hard for me to talk women social. Language barrier

[Willlovewinintheend]

Incel is a hate group on the internet. If you don't believe in the propaganda they spread on the internet then no. A loner and an incel are not the same thing.

Don't call yourself an Incel. You're better than that.

[IHateBeingaMan]

i believe it is