Why does my crush get angry and irritated when someone mentions my name while talking?

[Anonymous]

I have crush on the guy and he rejected me. That was fine.

We share a friend group.

But he would get irritated when someone mentions my name to him as in ‘hey I’m texting her’. Then he keeps checking if they are still talking to me and badmouth me.

[_Maya_]

I think you sorta answered your own question. He is probably concerned something is being said about him behind his back. It could also be that he wants to forget and move on from the rejection he gave you and not relive it. He could also genuinely just not like you. Yeah not the greatest thing to think about but could possibly be true. I would lean more towards he is worried what is being said since he rejected you.

[Asker]

As much as I agree with your opinion, just shouting at his best friends, bad mouthing about me and speaking as in I should be avoided (as if I’m some person with a communicable disease that must be avoided) is how he behave when someone mentions my name.
While his rejection is not that bad for me, asking people to isolate me feels extremely depressing.

[_Maya_]

I agree that it doesn't sound like he is handling the situation really well. Sounds kinda immature the way he is acting.

[PrincessBunBuns]

Who cares. This guy is a fucking loser, and you should tell someone he rejected you but you haven’t done anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

Had a similar situation last night. Someone on shittok was badmouthing the woman i love talking shit about her and i put that person in their place and let my girl know what happened. The ironic thing is i still defend her 6 years later when people talk shit about her. True love i guess especially after me and her been through hell and back

[scooogy]

I had a guy get upset whenever I mentioned my crushes name, because his crush had the same name. Was annoying. People should consider background details before overreacting.

[Joshydavid25]

He is probably irrationally irritated by you since he knows you like him.. I don't know if it's that he secretly may like you.. It's probably time to avoid this guy altogether.

[Sasha0426]

I’ve dealt with guys like him. They hate your entire existence.

[Sasha0426]

And they would do anything to make your life hell.

[Joshydavid25]

@Sasha0426 Damn, I'm sorry you been through that, but you're probably right in a way..

[Sasha0426]

I say be glad he rejected you. If he acts this way anytime your name is mentioned, you dodged a bullet. No way a normal person would react this angrily when someone they dislike is mentioned.

[Sasha0426]

And I would avoid him at all costs in case he decides to inflict harm on you.

[Asker]

I haven’t done anything apart from telling him I like him. Nothing to act this crazy.

[Sasha0426]

I’ve been down this road with guys. If they don’t like someone, they’ll do anything to make your life hell. I think it’s because he sees unworthy and just the thought of your existence angers him. People like that need major mental help.

[Anonymous]

you sure you guys can still be friends after telling him you liked him and getting rejected? with how he's acting, i think not.

[Asker]

We aren’t friends. We share a group of friends.

[Opinion Owner]

that can make it harder to cut him off. not sure what his problem is but best to stay away and tell your friends to not mention him ever.

[marialucky]

maybe he just trying manilpulating you

[Asker]

To what

[marialucky]

maybe he wants you to fall in love with him

[marialucky]

He might want to confuse you by the way what s him zodiac sign?

[Anonymous]

he doesn't like you

[Asker]

If someone doesn’t like someone, that shouldn’t cause the other to act strange.