The thing is... we work together.
We spend the working hours together, then we separate ways and he goes home (lives in another city).
After that I don't really know what's going on with his time, but recently I got promoted and got access to GPSs systems of all company cars. He uses one and uses it for personal purposes l basically as if it's his own.
So I started tracing his whereabouts from work to work... and noticed that it goes this way: he goes visiting his mom first (about an hour), then goes to his house for like 30 minutes, then picks up his best friend (I know where he lives)... then they visit the gym together then they go by the grocery store, go home and that's it. According to the GPS he spends the entire night at home (most likely cause he uses this car as his own).
That repeats every day. He doesn't ask me to come visit him. I know he doesn't have someone in there, cause one of my friends is a neighbor and I know for sure he lives alone.
We barely spend time together outside of work and I don't know what's the deal. I know he is kinda lonely... he is wasting his time playing belot while at home or watching people live their lives on Facebook. It's sad... for him and for me.
Why is that?
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I would not be calling him your boyfriend if he isn't making time for you outside of work.
Isn't it against company policy to use a company car as a personal car?
It is, but I'm not the person to say something against it.
Might want to be careful because if your bosses become aware you knew he was using as a personal car you might get into trouble yourself
I think you’re missing out on the boyfriend part. I mean, presumably you’re not doing each other at work all the time?
Not at work of course... but why does it matter. I wonder why is he like that?
It’s the only thing that does matter (spending quality time together, getting to know each other). His routine doesn’t sound so weird, just a bit dull. What were you expecting, that he should be going out to a different club every night?
Tbh with you I thought that just because he is not spending the quality time with me, he is spending it with someone else. It turned that he isn't doing something suspicious and I wonder why?