Why does this guy who only follows blonde skinny women on insta have a crush on me?

[Anonymous]

He constantly takes glances when he thinks I’m not looking and his friend confirmed that he was crushing on me. But when I checked his Instagram account almost every girl he followed were blond models and actresses and even random girls in his area. If I’m not his type at all why does he like me?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that’s most guys’ Instagram hun. That’s lust. And frankly, sorry he sounds like he just wants to hook up with you. Guys do have types but have a lot less of a type when it comes to hooking up. They’ll fuck a black, white, blue purple green woman if they’re hot enough. Id take that as a good sign but wouldn’t date anyone who has a type completely different from yourself

[Asker]

His friend told me that he has a crush on me though

[Opinion Owner]

Crush doesn’t mean date lol. I mean you can go for it but I’m just telling you to proceed with caution when dating guys who have a type who looks nothing like you. A few differences is okay but completely different is a whole other thing

[Asker]

And what Makes you think that he just wants to hook up with me?

[Opinion Owner]

I literally just told you are you slow? But like I said go into it and see for yourself and watch him cheat on you with the same type of girl you’re asking about 😂

[Asker]

LOL no you didn’t actually explain anything

[Opinion Owner]

You’re not his type. He just thinks you’re attractive. Do you understand?

[Asker]

I asked you why you would think that. I myself had genuine crushes on men who were not my usual type and I would never make an effort to search a person in a crowded room to secretly stare or act nervous if I only wanted to fuck and didn’t have any feelings at all

[Asker]

Yeah so? Doesn’t explain why he just wants to hook up and consider me unworthy of dating me?

[MittParekh15]

Most of the Men appreciate blonde beauty, and many follow them on Instagram

However deep inside they know what type of girl they may get in reality

Hence you might be of his type, so he is crushing on you.

[Asker]

Yeah But he only follows blonde girls when there are so many beautiful brunettes or women of color. I mean he doesn’t even follow Meghan fox but some random blonde girl next door that doesn’t even follow him back 😂

[MittParekh15]

Well seems that's the person's taste and preference

Men do follow blonde girls on Instagram for their own convenience, they don't expect them to follow back

It's short it's his fantasy and you are his reality

[Asker]

lol thats such bullshit. like im uglier than them because my hair is more pigmented like wtf

[MittParekh15]

Better to ask him, what he likes in you 😂

Jokes apart - Every Girl is beautiful in their own way.

Men may find some attractive and some unattractive

[spartan55]

Just because a guy glances at you doesn't mean he is interested.

[Asker]

LOL why would someone make an effort over the course of months to turn around and look at a girl in a crowded place?

[spartan55]

LOL because he wants to look at her...

[Asker]

Yeah why if he is not interested in her?

[spartan55]

He could be attracted, which is different than interested.

[Chayce]

Probably just random womens that he follows. Men like all types. No one person is regulated to being attracted to model no. 001 their whole life.

[BarryLiverstone]

Cus those are girls out of his league

[Asker]

LOL im not uglier than many of these women, I’m just not blonde

[BarryLiverstone]

We have no idea what you look like, but that’s why he does that

[Asker]

They are actually not out of his league

[BarryLiverstone]

Models and actresses are in his league? Then no reason to worry about what he does. You aren’t a model right?

[Asker]

No but some of the random girls that are not models that he follows are not hotter than me

[BarryLiverstone]

Well ya, some random ones might be. Why compare?

[Jmmmfi4]

THOSE ARE PROBABLY HIS FANTASY GIRLS

[Asker]

What is that supposed to mean? Those fantasy girls are not even prettier than me, just a different type