I've known this guy as rather shy and he used to be attracted to me. However last time I saw him he sat next to a girl he has assignments with and he leaned into her really close and lingered right in front of me but he still keeps glancing at me when he thinks I’m distracted. Im really confused by his behaviour because he used to like me and was always really shy around women but with her he acts overly confident and pushy even.
So, at your age, I would say yes. There are men and women both that have never grown emotionally since highschool and think making someone jealous is good idea. Which it is not, it is actually very immature.
Now this guy per say, I have no clue. But given your history together I can give him some benefit of the doubt. I mean if he was a shy guy or had a crush on you... and you know it, and nothing happened he might feel rejected by you.
I mean you said yourself, he was shy, and he had a crush on you. You knew that about him, so on some level you're a fool if you think he did not know you had some clue. And what came of it? Nothing right? And you want to act like he was shy, and now he should of did something more than what he did do. Be he was a shy guy, and you knew that right? So, what did you do about it? Nothing right? So now he is getting over his shyness, and you are seeing that and now you want to wonder why he is not doing it with you. Because he feels rejected by you. I mean what's stopping you right now form talking to him about it?
Who is being shy now?
If you have feelings about it, then talk to him about it. If you do not give a shit about him, then ignore him. Let me work it out and come to terms with it on his own.
Look every guy has a fish that got way, because we were too naive or shy to move on it when we should of. Those types of girls stay with you. and you never really get over it on some level.
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I don't do things to try to make a girl jealous. That is a silly child's game.
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I wouldn't try to make someone jealous. That's immature af
Maybe he just wants your attention. Could be he likes you and wants to get together
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