Why do woman get feelings but not men?

[Akam93]

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As in why do woman get feelings for a guy who was a friends with benefits but he just sees it as sex.

[JacobJordan]

because women can't have sex without being somewhat emotionally attracted to a man. men view sex like eating our favorite cheeseburger. it is fantastic and we would eat it again.

[Malwi93]

thats a nice comparison

[Anonymous]

Because emotions aren't for real men

[Sasha0426]

So you don’t get sad if a loved one dies or something?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure but you can't display anything if the sort

[Sasha0426]

Why not?

[Opinion Owner]

It not what men do, an uncle said 'if you want to cry just recall if you were ever inside them'
Yes then pour you heart out
No the shut the fuck up

[Sasha0426]

So he wouldn’t cry if his wife or children died? Well, I hope no one cries when he’s on his deathbed.

[Opinion Owner]

He was inside his wife and the children were inside him

[Katebfun]

Because during sexual activity oxytocin is released, it “acts as emotional super glue between partners. For women oxytocin is released stronger. Also most men will never respect a girl who gives it up so easily, unless he is the one for you. What's easily obtained is quickly dejected just as quick. Men lose interest if he's not seeking a long term relationship

[LiamJHayden]

Women in general are more empathetic than men. Because of this a guy is more likely to be fine with just the sex, while a lady is more likely to want a connection. Not always - I know women who just want the sex and guys who get attached super easily - but probably 85 out of 100 cases.

[mandyfire98]

Not true really. Men can develop feelings after sex just like women. Also women can just have sex without love as well.

[blissinanarchy1]

It's funny that this is still a conception. Men don't as frequently have feelings after sex, but it's proven when we do, we fall in love harder and faster.

[HawkPerception]

I'm definitely not speaking for all men... only myself when I say this... but I always get emotionally attached when I get intimate with a girl

[wolfcat87]

Some men definitely catch feelings... It just depends on the guy. I know guys who still message me years later because they caught feelings.

[boggboss]

Wtf are u talking about lol men don't have feelings 🤣

[ShaniaWWE]

@boggboss it's a troll

[boggboss]

It just suprises me daily what I read on here

[Akam93]

I don't troll. I just think woman develop feelings faster and more often then men. Like when a friends with benefits turn into feelings for a girl but a guy it's just sex.

[boggboss]

Yet thats not what your question asked u said men don't get feelings not women get them first

[boggboss]

If this is what your asking its because men tend to compartmentalise their emotions not all men but many do as for sex its because many women get into friends with benefits situations because they think they can make a guy fall for them when in truth the guy is getting everything he wants from the situation

[Akam93]

I'll update my question.

[boggboss]

Also this is not somthing that happens to all women many girls are able to have sex without developing more feelings

[Nifrayu]

@akam93 I promise you that's not true.

[HaveNoName]

Not sure about friends with benefits.. but in general, women look for emotional attachment... guys are less emotional and more visual and physical. Its just nature. You cannot deny that or change that.

[TonyMetal___86]

Are you for real? Who said that men do not have feelings and women does? 🤔 fyi some men have feelings and emotions more than a woman...

[Joshydavid25]

The happens when it's a woman they might be attracted to in some way, but would never boo up..

[Jazzy54]

It seems like you’re speaking from personal experience. Otherwise, that’s not true. Men get feelings, too.

[exitseven]

guys have feelings but the guy code forbids us from anyone outside the circle of trust to see them.

[Radiate143]

Oh! This is fascinating. So how do you get into the circle of trust?

[exitseven]

@Radiate143 Tgat is another thing covered in the guy code. Sorry.

[Radiate143]

Because boys are made of snips and snails and puppy dog tails.

[sheikalana]

Women get easily attached when having sex with someone.

[FunkyMonkee]

I got feelings, once. It was a TERRIBLE disease!!

[ThrillSeeker01]

I get feelings too strongly. I think my emotions are just too intense sometimes.

[Sasha0426]

I thought that happens to everyone who is Friends With Benefits. Whether it’s men or women.

[Anonymous]

Women are complex beings. Guys who admit their feelings first to her usually get turned off and push them aside.

[standardguy]

Men give love to get sex.
Women give sex to get love.

[Radiate143]

Stupid women give sex to get love.

[standardguy]

Well. Everybody tries to please the other person to get what he/she wants.

[Anonymous]

Because women will only have sex with a guy she could picture herself being in a relationship with. Men will fuck any girl who says yes

[Anonymous]

It only takes 1 woman to ensure that never happens again

[Lostinthisworld94]

Because he doesn't feel you are the one who fits his standard

[bededazzle]

huh? this is news to me

[Nifrayu]

What do you mean?

[Nifrayu]

It would be more than just sex for me. That's where the friendship part comes in. I am not comfortable having sex with someone who I have no kind of relationship with.

[jahaims]

Men do get/have feelings lol

[Anonymous]

What planet are you from?

[Anonymous]

That's wrong. Both get feelings

[purplegage]

Men do, maybe just not towards you.