Anways it was bothering me at first bc he is married and it’s wrong but than I started thinking like what’s the big deal this if we never hang out side of work and I doubt he would so clearly it’s prob not going to lead to anything just he prob wants attention at work and nothing more, do y’all agree that shouldn’t bother me and I should pay no attention bc it’s just at work and he prob is not being serious outside of work and I should just leave and not pay attention to what he trying to do and let it go
Luv, I would not mess around with a married guy from work, no matter what. That's just asking for drama and you don't want any part of that. Even if he says it's just attention at work, those lines can get blurred real fast and you don't want to end up in an awkward or compromised position.
This guy is giving you attention 'cause he's trying to get something from you, but as soon as you give in he'll probably lose interest anyway. Don't let anyone treat you like a side piece - you deserve way better than that! Plus if word got around the office about you two, even if nothing happened, it could damage your reputation.
My advice would be to keep it 100% professional with this married dude. Don't flirt back or give him any special treatment. Stay polite but keep your distance. Make it clear you're not interested in crossing any boundaries. If he keeps it up, you might have to tell him directly to back off or report him to HR if things escalate.
Just protect yourself and don't get sucked into this married guy's game. Not worth the risk! You'll find someone way better who isn't messing around on their wife.
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it kind of depends what he is doing or saying. even if he is single, you are protected from advances that make you uncomfortable at work. anyhow, it's up to you. it depends whether it does bother you. it's not about should or shouldn't.
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