I’ve been reading about a lot of cynical men on here (no, not everyone); but enough men to make me wonder. Claiming that no one loves men as much as men love women and saying things like, women are nothing but used goods if we have the gall to live beyond our twenties, that no guy our own age or older would want us? I find it strange and largely untrue.
It's become so uncommon that people lose motivation and just assume it doesn't exist, people know deep down it exists but the chances of them running into the people that match the same views on relationships can be tricky.
They haven't had enough of it.
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It mainly stems down from how society is today , with hearing and seeing and reading and experiencing or witnessing , all the nonsense about people betraying each other in relationships people lying to each other, backstabbing each other, cheating on each other , so the foundation of a relationship , sadly isn’t the same as it was before. Because most people have a harder time trusting each other these days , mainly because of all of the nonsense that is filled into our heads. Social media contributed to this dynamic making us people more selfish and more aware of our surroundings , especially when things don’t go our way, instead of fixing what is broken , most people run to someone else hoping that person will save them , mainly because they can’t admit that they were wrong. Most people think they are always right and never admit that they are wrong, so it’s basically their way or no way. Love will never grow with 2 people , that have selfish mindsets, it can be both of you or just one of you , that has a selfish mindset and sadly that’s what causes most relationships to fail. You can’t expect your partner to do for you , if you can’t do for them, it needs to go both ways or that relationship more than likely won’t last. So for any relationship to last , and for love to grow , both people have to give 100 percent to each other as much as possible and make each other their top priority , over everyone else , especially nowadays with everyone of us walking around with a cell phone in our hand , that gives everyone of us , easy access into each others’ lives. Sadly a lot of people have a hard time resisting temptations because of how easy it is to show interest into each other secretly. Girls from my past that I never thought I would see or hear from again , came back into my life , ex girlfriends that I exempted out of my life , tried coming back into my life , trying to apologize for what they did to me , thinking they can have another shot at me , not caring that I was already in a relationship with someone else already So it just goes to show how selfish people can be , we are all faced with choices in life , if you can’t choose your partner , don’t expect them to choose you , you have to be able to give what you want to receive , if you can’t give to someone tat is giving to you , then do not get into a relationship with someone period, because you only cares about yourself and what you receive making you a selfish person Love will not grow that way , it’s ok to admit you are wrong as long as you learn from those mistakes , when you learn to remove selfishness from within yourself , it’s easier to remove selfishness for your partner , and yes your partner should be doing the same for you as well if not, it was nice knowing you , Next
It was nice knowing you
It is abit sad and frustrating that some culturals or men looked down on women by a certain age number or finger pointing. But truthfully, the 30s is thriving and beautiful :) Sometimes, they just go through their own defeat of disappointments/rejections and project it upon others. Those feelings are validated, but it doesn’t make it okay to bring one gender down with those negative feelings/experiences…. The world also need more positive men mental health.
immaturity, bad experiences, bad patterns from home, or just showing a specific attitude...
There could be plenty of reasons... I try to stay away from such people as far as possible :D
Because it's hard to find
My parents, have been together, 35+ years happily, while, my dads two sisters, have been divorced (one remarried), and my moms sister has also been divorced (re-married)
Don't judge the real world by what you see on here. Most men are not as screwed up as some male users of this website.
because not all guy lives according to their actual instincts
I agree. That’s crazy. I know plenty of couples my parents age who are really happy together.
Some people just never got to experience real love.
There are a lot of women have good quality in their 30s. Lotta men realize that a lot of men are just immature and say things that they should not.
I'm very cynical, but believe it exists. Most people will simply never experience it. Which sucks.
Women are only capable of love if they have a low body count. As most modern women are whores real love has sadly become quite rare.
Men are tit suckers
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