Such as he found out I’m going to Wendy’s at lunch he was like can you get me sweet tea (it’s like a dollar) than he keeps asking me for piece of gum the other days asked me if I had any apples etc any particular reason why this guy being like that?
Any particular reason why a guy coworker who is in a relationship asks me (single) girl to do him little favors that’s like almost everyday ?
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That is kind of weird. A few possibilities:
- He's lazy and cheap and just wants to mooch off you for little things instead of doing it himself.
- He might be trying to be "friendly" and get on your good side for some reason at work. But favors all the time seems over the top.
- My suspicion would be he's kind of flirting or testing boundaries since he has a girlfriend. See how you respond to the small requests.
I'd be careful if I were you. Definitely don't go out of your way too much for him if it's an everyday thing. And don't do anything one-on-one outside work.
If he asks again, you could play it light like "bro I'm not your personal assistant" and see how he reacts. Watch for any other annoying behaviors toward you or other girls too.
Just be aware and don't let him take advantage. Put him in his place if needed. Some dudes will push limits if you let them. Trust your gut on his intentions - they may not be so pure!
Friend of mine said he is extra too much with me unlike with others
So not really sure tbh
Prob maybe wants to cheat who knows
Ya that's even sketchier if he's not askin other people for stuff all the time, just you. Def sounds like he's tryna get on your good side or something. If he's in a relationship already I wouldn't trust it. He's prob flirtin with you, tryna feel you out to see if you'd be down to cheat or something. I wouldn't wanna get mixed up in that mess, dudes just gonna end up hurtin someone. I'd say keep your distance from him, don't do any more favors, and maybe be straight up and tell him you're not comfortable with how much he's askin you for stuff. Maybe even mention you don't wanna get in the middle of anything between him and his girl. That'll put him in his place and let him know you ain't gonna go there. Not worth the drama!
Again with this? You seem unwilling to address this guy's behavior for some odd reason. Instead you are obsessed with WHY he does it? Just very bizarre on your part.
Oh calm down I need to figure this situation out bro
Yeah I'm all fired up over this...🙄. So what happens if 'figure it out'? Awfully obsessed with a dude who has a girlfriend.
I’m not tbh just trying to leave him alone he keeps coming back
Like why am I guilty?
I pushed him away next thing ya know he came back like why?
And trying to be extra friendly saying he will buy my car
He keeps coming back because you still entertain his bullshit. You're so worried about why he does it instead the fact that he does it. Maybe you don't mind if he mooches off you.
I do mind just trying to see what his attention is like he will come off friendly etc like I don’t often understand his behavior with me
Sounds like you want to be his side piece.
Sweety who said I want and am
I literally try to back away from home always finds ways to approach me
Him**
Why is he asking me if he can supposedly buy my car I’m trying to sell my old car do you think he really needs it he owns a bmw
Why does matter what he owns now?
Omgg why are you being this way
Can you be a little bit helpful I’m literally struggling here not sure what this bro wants
You obviously love the attention. Maybe his wife can tell you why he does it.
I am seriously confused by so called his attention like what’s his problem for real
He wants to buy your car for his wife.
His wife owns a bmw
Okay... so what?
No nothing
It's so obvious what you are angling at. I don't know why you think we are all stupid.
Why again am I the guilty one
Because you are trying to screw around with a married man.
I am not trying to screw with him
It doesn't make any sense that this matters so much to you.
It matters bc I see that person everyday at work and it’s something that I have to deal with