He’s 49 and I’m 23. Does he see me as a friend or something else?

[Anonymous]

We have normal conversations but he will randomly ask me about…my height, my body weight and if whether or not I wear traditional clothes. I ask him why he asks and he says…. random thought. Yes, this man is married and has 3 kids. However, he’s Muslim and Emirati 🇦🇪 so it’s not unusual for them to have more than one wife.

[RingOfFire]

Try wearing a Hijab and maybe it will cool him down a little.

[Asker]

In your honest opinion, do you think he would ask those questions if he saw me only as a friend? I ask because it’s the first time I talk to someone older and the ones my age always make it so obvious that they’re interested.

[RingOfFire]

I will say this. Just because he is much older than you does not mean he isn't attracted to you. Beyond that it is impossible for me to tell what his thoughts about you are although those are some pretty personal questions and he may be testing out to see if you show any interest. But unless you see yourself in a plural marriage with a guy who also has another wife, I wouldn't let things go down that road.

[chrissykerdock]

sounds like he wants you in those pajamas soon

[Anonymous]

He sees you like a sex doll.