IF the caee that he wishes to be left alone, when upset. he should tell you that. OBVIOUSLY this is retarded that you have to ask us.
As a mater of respect he should simply tell you he wants to be alone-its not you. So that you are not confused as to what he wants, when what he wants is to be left alone.
As a point in logic he should simply tell you, he wants to be alone-its not you. So you do not bother him when what he wants is to be left alone.
As you guys are in a relationship, him giving you random silent treatments is more like a silent tantrum, rather than, a rational adult calmly re,moving himself from becoming irritable around others.
hes be ing passive aggressive& very immature.
you should be able to ask him this Q yourself. the fact you do not feel comfortable doing s, suggests there is not good communication or mutual respect going on.
You should talk to him tho. just ask him what you asked us. he is your boyfriend, we are not. he owed you an explanation of what he wants.
ask him when you guys are talking on good terms so he does not feel attacked & use that against you.
asking calmly is not nagging. but if he is pissed hell say you r. because he is immature.
men do not do not except you to walk on egg shells in anticipation of their every him. boys do.
id think if a person required something within a relationship they would be happy to explain. well, an adult would be.. children might complain.
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I'd imagine if he asked you over, despite being in a sour mood is he wants you there, but he doesn't want to talk. If this is the case, I'd say(and this is if you feel comfortable enough around his house) do stuff. Maybe cook something(always a good way to a man's heart), or give him something else(should help him out of his funk. ;) ). Pop in a favorite movie of his or don't bother him if he's listening to music. It's natural to not want to talk to anyone if you're really pissed off, I know I don't want to, but(much to the confusion of my bf), I don't him to leave either. There's a need to have a source of comfort, even if you don't act like you want it.
When a guy's in a bad mood, I leave him alone. I just says call me if you want to talk or need something. I'm the same way, usually. Only I say, I don't want to talk now, I'll call you.
"Hey, feel better baby. I'm open to talk when you want to"
For real, when guys have really pain-in-the-@ss problems, the best bet is to let them handle it by giving them space. Otherwise, the problem will resurface if left unchecked. It's happened to me before, many times. To which I didn't care enough to handle it, which only ended up biting me in the butt later.
Plenty of guys don't discuss their problems. But honestly, some of us feel better when we vent it out. If he feels like it, just keep the line open.
Does one continue to poke an angry bear? Keep throwing rocks at the Hornet's nest? These are signs in which one should walk away slowly. Call them survival skills. I just hope we haven't put that gene sequence into remission.
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Sounds like he's just pissed/stressed from dealing with this ongoing car situation. It's not your fault, he knows that and so should you. Just because he's in a bad mood doesn't mean you need to take it personally. Simply ask him if there's anything you can do to help and/or tell him you're there if he needs a ride or anything. After that, don't keep prying or nagging on the issue. If you do that then he will be annoyed with you.
With your guy it sounds like it's best to leave him alone because he doesn't sound like the type that wants to talk or spill his guts when he's in a bad mood. He likes to keep things inside it seems. so it's best to give him space until he's ready.
yea...anyone when irritated...its best to leave that person alone
& I guess your boyfriend is doing the right thing because there's no point to argue about it...
i mean NEVER GET ARGUMENTATIVE WITH WOMENGuys don't want to be talked to when they are pissed. If you want to help, ask him to go for a jogging with you, or offer him something to break with a smile. Guys need something physical, words are for women not men.
Yep. When men withdraw we want to be left alone. when women withdraw you want to be chased and comforted.
Generally, yes. Most guys don't want to be bothered when they're angry. Let him cool off, he'll be fine.
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