Why my crush didn't ask me out?

[Anonymous]

So I started to have crush on this guy last week of December before the holiday, and I started to show him signals that I like him back after the holiday in January, I really made it so obvious that I like him, I always stare deeply into his eyes even when he's not looking at me, I stalked his social media accounts I followed him on Ig, Tik tok, I liked his Ig stories and I viewed his Tik tok account multiple times so he can know that I'm so obesses with him, I even asked his friends when he didn't come to school becuz he was sick so they can go and tell him that I asked about him, he actuatly caught my hints but he drops some hints back like he started to give me more attention and he started to make more eye contact with me, he makes excuses to talk to me and he always calls me by my name a lot during sport, he always helps me and defend me when I need, he's always physically close to me, he looks at me a lot and smile, he mirrors my body language, he tries to get my attention like speaking louder or when he laughs he looks directly to me, but still he didn't made ask me out yet, is it becuz he doesn't like me back or is becuz I didn't made it obvious that I like him? Or is it becuz he's not ready yet to ask me out or am I just not patient?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

He is playing games ig. Coz he don't sounds geniune. maybe he is not.
But u shouldn't ask him out first, otherwise u look desperate. Wait for him to ask u out. But don't wait for that long.
Instead be friends first, but the question is how - take help from him , about anything like studies.
Be friends slowly, without showing him that u are serious about him
And starts hanging out with him more.
Maybe someday he will ask u out.
Being friend is the safest option but don't be a homie type.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

*studies or work (if u do work)

[RoronoaZoro8]

How does a girl look desperate if she asks someone out first but a guy doesn't?

[spartan55]

Sorry, but this is terrible advice. OP would not be viewed as desperate if she asked him out. And the long overly complex friends first strategy will only make him lose interest.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Nope it will work good. It worked on my friends too, that's why I'm saying. Now they are in relationship with their crushes.
How can u even be in a relationship with someone when u are not even friends first? everything takes times, otherwise it looks desperate and people lose interest.
See friendship is love. That kind of relationship is stronger than other relationships, because u know each other well, u already know , u both will workout somehow.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

A girl will not look desperate , if she ask him first. But the point is - he is her crush Crush.
Crush means someone who is out of your league (not out of league, but some guys/girls do intentionally act like they are out of someone's league, like playing games) and crush kind of things fade away fast. If u want to date someone , why not be friends first. One more thing , if he is interested in her then why the hell he didn't ask her out. She made those hints clear.

[spartan55]

"she made those hints clear"
Obviously you know nothing about how guys think.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Okkie😶👉👈tell me how guys think lmfaooooo, two of my bestie's need these advices 🤣maybe your advice will help them

[spartan55]

He very well may like her, but she hasn't shown him that she is interested. In reality, staring at him, and following him on social media means next to nothing when it comes to showing genuine interest. I have no idea what you were talking about in your last reply. First you insisted she would look desperate if she asked him out, then you backpedal and say it wouldn't be? As far as wanting to be friends first there are some guys that like to progress things that way, but they are the minority. Think I'm wrong? Put up a poll and see how wrong I am.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Let's see how wrong u are loll

[spartan55]

Did you put a poll up?

[myloveforuisinfinte]

I will lol , I don't know what I have seen 99% times u gonna fail if u tell someone about your feelings. Never happened with me XD coz I never had permanent crushes but I'm telling u from my observation

[myloveforuisinfinte]

*I don't know but what I have seen

[spartan55]

Sure thing 👌

[myloveforuisinfinte]

See my last post

[boggboss]

Because he is either too shy or scared too or doesn't want too if your not willing to take the first move all u can do is sit and wait

[RoronoaZoro8]

Why don't you ask him out instead?

[Asker]

I feel like its not feminine to ask a guy out

[RoronoaZoro8]

It's plenty feminine

[spartan55]

So you feel doing nothing except starimg at him is a better strategy?