My guy and I have been dating for 6 months. I spent the weekend at his house. This morning he shared with me, in very little words, how mean I was, saying mean things in my sleep. I have no recollection of talking in my sleep. I did apologize. He took what I said personal. He did clean the snow off my car. He walked me out, but was hesitant to hug or kiss me. I hugged and kissed him, he was resistant with receiving my affection. I asked him whether he was upset with me or not liking me right now. He replied, "talk to you later". That's it. He has not texted or called me to see whether I made it home safe. My gut is telling me, our relationship is done. That he took what I said in my sleep personal. Should I text him to apologize? I don’t know what to do. Any advice and or guidance welcomed, please.
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Well if he is going to get mad at something you said in your sleep then he has some issues. That is your subconscious. While the things might be connected to real life thoughts or feelings they are not voluntary in my opinion. Saying talk to you later might have just been his way of trying to be polite but still expressing his dissatisfaction over what was said. I still think it is silly to get upset at someone for what they said in their sleep. He has no idea the context of what was said. I think it is a huge overreaction to get mad. Give it some time tho. I don't think that anything is over because of it. If it is then you are better off.
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He just feels upset. Call him tomorrow
It means you need to ask for clarification
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