Guy's Behavior
3 mo

Was I in the wrong for not helping him when he asked for money or was the “provider” in the wrong for asking?

I gave him another chance after we were both in the wrong and he seemed like he wanted to work things out… as time went by i felt like his intentions weren’t as the same or good. I wanted something to change so we can move on & do better. Literally last week he told me we werent benefiting each other and when i asked what he meant by that he said because I didn’t “fork it over” when i had said no. Before giving him that second chance before we crashed I’ve sent him money before… a big portion which was out the blue but this man had never done anything for me never even bought me just a water bottle. I was willing to change and do something different if only he had went out his way to prove he really wanted me around. I still miss him even though he made me feel like I wasn’t enough and he tried to play me for my money which I didn’t fall for. It just sucks. I heavily regret giving him accessibility to me again because I came along with nothing but pure intentions. We’ve been on/off a lot & Deeply I feel like he’ll come back again the 3rd time.

Was I in the wrong for not helping him when he asked for money or was the “provider” in the wrong for asking?
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