Why does he treat people so badly?

[Anonymous]

I was dating this guy and I got into a car accident. After the accident he was trying to console me but did something I found unsupportive (which had been a habit). I told him I was bothered by it and he apologized and said he’d stop but was very dismissive about it. I said I wanted to talk about it more which after then he said he didn’t want to talk at all and we broke up cause he was unwilling to talk about it.

Anyway I loved him but the breakup wasn’t that serious. I said we could stay friends and he again said he didn’t want to talk to me. Do I left him alone. I saw him post something on Discord recently about an accomplishment and I reacted to show my support. He blocked.

I have been nothing but good to this man and I don’t get why some men treat people so badly. I have left the server now since that’s what it seems like would be best.

[stark04]

What do you mean by not serious break up? Is it a subject to gradation?

[Asker]

No I just didn’t think it was that big of a deal. I've always had this feeling that what’s meant to be will be.

[stark04]

Breakup is an absolute state.

Just move on like he has or he's playing hard to get. The more he resist the more you want.

[Asker]

Yeah you know what, you’re right. I’ve always had this tendency to think things are my fault and I always feel bad and try to make it up to the person.

[Asker]

He might be playing on that, he knows I don’t stay mad for very long. Should I just block him too or just carry on?

[stark04]

It's hard for ex to be your friend so never get into shit like that. Move on and live your life to the fullest 🎉

[stark04]

Just forget about him. You're no longer in relationship. You've got nothing to do with him.

[Asker]

Okay, I will then! :D thank you so much for helping me stark 💗💗

[stark04]

No problem. Keep smiling. 😁

[spartan55]

What did he do that you found unsupportive?