Why would and ex start flirting and such now with you again and state have a strong friendship what is the meaning and or is there a hidden agenda?

[Anonymous]

Ex boyfriend out of the blue started texting me and has texted me every day for the past four days. Our convo is very interesting there is flirting, and compliments, and questions and answer some with a sexual intention and answers. It is very confusing since we broke up
He ended it not me almost a year ago. He states our friendship is strong but the sexual stuff added in makes me feel that there is more his is not telling me. In addition there was talk about spending the night on my couch or sharing a bed when he comes through my way. It is confusing but I do not dare ask what his intentions are and or where we are going with this.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, this whole situation definitely seems sus to me. You need to be careful! Some red flags I'm seeing:

- He ended things with you almost a year ago, and now randomly hits you up out of nowhere flirting heavy? Nah, doesn't add up.

- Talking about spending the night and sharing a bed super casually like that - he tryna get something from you for sure.

- Dude is not being totally real about "just wanting to be friends." Friends don't try and sleep in the same bed like that, there's obvious intention behind it.

- He wants to test the waters with you emotionally and see if you'll respond before revealing his full motive - which is prob to try and get back with you on the sly.

My advice sis, don't let him come over to your place or get any chance to pull something. If he asks what he wants, he'll just deny it and string you along more. I'd keep your distance for now and feel him out from afar - see if he can stay consistent as just a friend or if he'll slip up. Protect your heart! You don't owe this jerk anything after he broke it off. His loss.

[teamvic]

It could be simply that he has the ability to fuck you.

If him talking to you doesn't seem like he's only interested in getting back in a relationship with you it could very well mean that he just wants to fuck you. And more than once. The evidence that backs that up is him hitting you up randomly, being instantly flirty, and also being sexual

That's exactly what I would do if I wanted to hit a girl that I wanted to fuck

In fact that's exactly what I did to a girl to get inside her🤔😂

I hit her up, it was a girl from highschool I hadn't talked to in a couple years. We never even dated buy I knew she liked me. I hit her up randomly, started flirting. Got sexual and that same night we fucked.
That's the exact formula he's trying on you 🤔🤔

[Asker]

Hmm that would makes sense in the tries comments he has made and ass statements but if he has a girlfriend which he claimed he did back in December why fuck me when he could fuck her. And would it not make more sense to talk to her about his issues than me?

[Asker]

Titties* not tried

[teamvic]

Well I'll answer your question with a question of my own

If he had a girlfriend, why would he even be mentioning your titties and ass cheeks to begin with?🤔 isn't the comments alone already crossing the line.

Could be to situations here.
1) he could've broken up with the girl

2) he wants to cheat

Both scenarios he's hitting you up to fuck. No matter his situation, relationship wise, is. He does want to fuck you. If he didn't he wouldn't even be brining up anything remotely sexual

Cheating guys have this mindset

Yeah I got some pussy but what's better than some pussy? More pussy

Perhaps you do something he likes that she doesn't, perhaps you do something better. Perhaps you got a better ass or titties. It could be many things but they all lead back to one reason.

[spartan55]

@aske
It's called cheating.

[laly520]

rule 1
do not talk to an ex
they r better left in past

[spartan55]

The agenda is sex...🙄