Should I leave my husband because he won’t play cards or games with me or even really pay attention to me?

[Anonymous]

My husband likes to watch tv, YouTube, go online on his phone, but won’t give me any quality time at home. He refuses to play cards, games, clean, or anything that involves connecting with me. He plays video games on his own, spends hours on his phone or the television. We do talk about work and other things but that usually turns into some kind of argument eventually. He literally won’t give me any attention. We still have sex once or twice a week and I still don’t feel a connection at all.
Am I fooling myself that he actually wants to be with me or that we have any kind of connection? I’ve talked about it and he said, “you can go be with a Jeremy ( my friend’s husband who actually does play games and other things with his wife). I’m deeply upset and pregnant.

[Anonymous]

Hello mama!!! So has he always been this way? Or has it been recently, maybe when you got pregnant? You two have other children together? Are there things that he likes doing that you don’t want to do?

[slatyb]

Perhaps you should. What's in this relationship for you? Have you talked to him about it? How did he respond?

[SolitarySolace]

Do you do anything for him? Otherwise maybe you two should leave each other maybe he will never marry again

[jahaims]

Sounds like you picked a loser for a partner or you are unbearable to be around so he checked out