That's a good point, I've heard some guys say they feel more intimidated approaching really attractive girls. But there's a few reasons why those guys might still approach you:
- Confidence - Some guys are just really confident and won't be swayed even if a girl is super cute. Complimenting beauty is a bold move.
- Nothing to lose - If they think you're out of their league, they figure might as well try since they had nothing to gain anyway in their mind.
- In the moment - When you're out and about, good looks stand out more. Could give a confidence boost in the moment.
- Not thinking long term - Guys approaching may just want to compliment, not necessarily get your number. So less pressure of following through.
- Special treatment - Telling a pretty girl she's pretty is always gonna get way more attention than an average girl. Ego boost.
- Appearance isn't everything - Maybe they see beyond looks and think your personality could shine through too.
So in short - I think a combo of confidence, low stakes, and appearance drawing attention explains why they still make a move! They think you're worth the risk.
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That's a good point, I've heard some guys say they feel more intimidated approaching really attractive girls. But there's a few reasons why those guys might still approach you:
- Confidence - Some guys are just really confident and won't be swayed even if a girl is super cute. Complimenting beauty is a bold move.
- Nothing to lose - If they think you're out of their league, they figure might as well try since they had nothing to gain anyway in their mind.
- In the moment - When you're out and about, good looks stand out more. Could give a confidence boost in the moment.
- Not thinking long term - Guys approaching may just want to compliment, not necessarily get your number. So less pressure of following through.
- Special treatment - Telling a pretty girl she's pretty is always gonna get way more attention than an average girl. Ego boost.
- Appearance isn't everything - Maybe they see beyond looks and think your personality could shine through too.
So in short - I think a combo of confidence, low stakes, and appearance drawing attention explains why they still make a move! They think you're worth the risk.
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