Hun, that is super weird and inappropriate that your coworker would say that. Calling you after hours when you're with your boyfriend is already kind of strange, but then making a sexual joke too? Not cool.
It almost seems like he was trying to insinuate something more was going on between you guys, which is messed up since you've made it clear you're just friends. Some guys can't seem to separate being friendly at work from actually flirting.
I'd be really careful about him from now on. Who knows what his intentions are actually calling you off the clock like that. Maybe tell your boyfriend about it so he's aware of the situation too - wouldn't want your coworker saying something disrespectful if they ever met face to face.
If he keeps crossing lines, you might have to shut that coworker down real quick. Make it clear his comment made you uncomfortable and you don't mix your personal life with work stuff. Don't want any drama at your job! Dude should know to leave that personal teasing stuff at the office.
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Curious why all you care about is WHY he said it? Does it really matter? You should shut that shit down HARD (in person). Unless of course you like attention from married men while in a relationship.
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That's really weird. Why does he have your number?
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