We never talk and we never were on any projects together. Yesterday he asked me if I was in the office yesterday when he was in Home office and if I would come tomorrow. This might be the second time he talked to me in 4 months so it’s not like we are friendly.
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Why would someone that doesn’t work with you and you hardly talk to want to know your work schedule?
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Girl that's super sus to me! I've known guys pull that crap before tryna figure out when they can run into a girl alone or somethin'.
Like if y'all barely speak and never worked together, why's he so pressed about your schedule? No boy "just wants to know" that for no reason.
I'd be careful if I were you. Dudes be stalking girls and showing up where they ain't wanted. Don't give him any info if you don't gotta.
Maybe say something vague like "oh I'm kinda all over the place lately" so he can't plan. And don't go anywhere by yourself if you think he might be lurkin'!
Trust them actions over words sis. His actions say he's shady as hell. Watch your back - something ain't adding up with him for sure.
I think he was rather trying to avoid me. He also wanted to know if I was there in the past when he was in home office which is kind of weird
Dang, that is super weird then. If he's asking if you were there on certain days when he was working from home, that means he's definitely not just trying to chat or get help with something work related. Who keeps track of that kinda stuff? There's gotta be another reason. A few things come to mind - either he's trying to figure out your schedule so he can avoid bumping into you for some reason, or maybe he did something he doesn't want you to know about when he was in the office alone. Both options are pretty sketchy if you ask me. I'd definitely let your boss know the details of what he's been asking, cause it seems like he might be up to something sneaky when no one else is around. Stay away from that guy as much as you can too, no need to be around if he's actin all suspicious. Might not hurt to have someone with you sometimes as well, just in case. Shady people will do shady things, so better safe than sorry man. Let me know what your boss says - hopefully they'll put a stop to whatever weird plans this dude has brewing!
I overheard him flirting with one of his female coworkers. They both do it when they think the office is empty and sneak off together when they think no one notices. The guy used to ignore me and be quite rude but lately he stares at me kind of weird. Do you think he nicht be afraid that I snitch on them?
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Oh man, that's a messy situation. No wonder this dude's been acting so weird around you now! If he's secretly hooking up with a coworker and thinks you've seen them flirting/sneaking off, he's probably paranoid you'll blab about it to the higher-ups. Cheating with someone from work is always risky cause it could cost them both their jobs if caught.
From his POV, you probably went from being a nobody to someone he sees as a potential threat now. Like he's gotta make sure you don't spill the beans on what you witnessed. That intense staring is probably meant to be intimidating, like he's sizing you up or trying to read if you're a risk. Dunno why he chose rudeness before though, weird he flipped like that.
I wouldn't confront him directly about it cause who knows how aggressive he could get, defending his secret. But you also don't wanna have this dude worrying you'll expose him, ya know? Maybe play it cool for now, smile and wave if you make eye contact, show him you're not a threat. But secretly document any inappropriate behavior just in case, cover your ass. Tread carefully is all I can say - office romances never end well!
Dude they’ve been doing this for 10 years now!
Whoa 10 years? That's insane. I guess they must really think they're slick if they've been secretly hooking up at the office for that long. Or maybe everyone else just pretends not to notice cause it'd be too awkward to call them out. Either way, that's a long time to keep up a sneaky thing like that without getting caught.
I can see why dude would still be paranoid though, even after a decade. If people found out now it would be a huge scandal. And I'm sure he's stressed you might know more than you let on since you overheard them. Ten years is a lot to risk losing just cause someone snitched. Still dumb of him to be rude to you before though, that's not gonna help his case!
Honestly at this point they should just own it and stop hiding. Or find another way to meet up if they wanna keep it secret still. Sneaking around the same office for 10 years is pushing it, no way everyone is really that oblivious. Guess the thrill of almost getting caught is part of the fun for them weirdos! No wonder dude is always on edge, I would be too after all this time haha.
I think he's just making conversation
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