its been almost a week. I asked him if he meant everything he said last night and he said yes. I sent a "im sorry." and then unsent bc there's no changing his mind and I didn't do anything wrong :( and he said "what did you unsend?" and then I never replied.
I want to reply sooo badly but I know it will hurt me more to keep talking to him and I won't be able to move on. I posted a cute pic with my friends this weekend and he liked it. He posted a story of scenery and I just watched it no reply. Do you think its understood why I didn't reply or am I a bitch for leaving him on that message. he broke up with me anyways but he said he wanted to be friends. I don't know if he rlly wants to be friends or saying that to be nice or if he's saying that to be friends with benefits and no labels :(
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delete his convo n move on
its over
ahh I can't delete it :( not yettt hasn't been a week
guess a part of me thinks he'd come back
u have to
ik its hard but u can do it
u deserve better than that
ur right highkey im sad but not thatttt sad bc I think about it and like I gave so much and all he gave me was a good morning good night and daily 5 hour phone call
he just made me feel comfortable and I was able to give all my love. im delulu I love loving.
its fine
we live n we learn more
good luck next time
Why did he break up with you?
he said I didn't make him feel heard (broke up with his ex bc of this too) and he doesn't want to lead me on because I'm such a good genuine nice good person and he really likes me so this is hard and he cares about me so he has to do this :( Said im such a positive person and he loves that but he says he's negative doesn't want to put me down. He said he has anger issues and I haven't seen it and he doesn't want me to see it. I tried reassuring him with all of these. He took a big test and broke up with me day before he sent me that he passed it. made me feel used for sexual and emotional needs tbh. He thanked me for my support.
and then later was being stupid trying to cheer me up was like I can't be with you ur too hot for me and you deserve better than me etc.
I told my parents about him we had bene talking for 4 months and I think that also freaked him out and he got really upset about that. I think he just was using me for support and was never serious about me while I was in delulu world and in absolute love :(
oh he also said I speak over him sometime. he told me this complaint and I changed my ways but he said that I stopped and continued to speak over him and I said I wish you told me and he said that he doesn't like to ask people more than once. I explained it is hard on FaceTime sometimes to understand the end of a conversation and sometimes I would insert questions when he would speak because I was interested in the convo like if he's saying I went to the restaurant (and Id be like which restaurant) but he wanted to speak his full sentence first. I told him its better and easier in person.
yeah
is it bad to tho bc he broke up with me what am I supposed to say