Guys, Why some guys are disrespectful and catcall women in the streets?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes i just dress like a guy (oversized street wear not revealing outfits) but they some disrespectful ones still look and stare and sometimes catcall and do noises with their mouth ugh disgusting

[pethouse]

I’m guessing it’s because they are hoping that person would turn around and give them
The attention they are seeking? I’ve only ever seen it twice. The first time this dude was “LITERALLY” cat calling. I forgot what he said at first but then he started to literally make the sounds you’d made when calling a cat. It was actually pretty funny even her and her friend laughed. Then the second time my boy was drunk and we we’re leaving a rave and he got his ego stroked by a few girls at the rave so I’m guessing he felt like he could get anyone at that point.

[Flatmanlewis]

Okay, so here’s something at 18-24 you haven’t been able to figure out yet. The world is not divided into two parts: male & female, with two sets of rules and behaviors universal between them.


You will meet total asshole men (and women) and there isn’t much you can do about it. You can avoid them, dress more discreetly, confront them, whatever. DON’T think however you’ll never meet them again. It’s sad, but true so my advice is be you. Dress how you want (appropriately of course) and just don’t let them have that much rent-free time in your mind. Happiness is yours to have, not theirs to give.

[strateguy632]

because they believe they are giving a compliment!

the opposite of disrespect and even from a safe distance too.

ACCEPT the compliment instead of complaining.

i got a whistle too! i took it as a compliment.

the only reason to complain is if they did that to someone ELSE, then complainers are jealous! of the good looks!

[genericname85]

can you explain to me how a person expressing their desire for physical interaction for another person is "disrespectful"? i mean i can see how it would be inappropriate. but they're just expressing a desire they have. so how can that even be "disrespectful"?

[SolitarySolace]

Is saying “Good evening beautiful have a nice day” considered catcalling?

https://youtu.be/RQSgUL_hvgs?si=r8PbsVApmBS_QfQx

[Asker]

No. But making stupid noises with mouth is and staring in a bad way is.. or saying sexual words

[Asker]

It depends how it was said too

[SolitarySolace]

🤷🏻‍♂️ Gonna tell you what people always tell me. It’s because of you and your own choices.

You can choose to ignore them or blame all men on the internet and seem like a misandrist.

[Asker]

I am not blaming anyone i just wanna know why they do it? Did they replied their brain with their penises sorry for the word?

[SolitarySolace]

I wouldn’t know I don’t care enough about women to catcall them

[Asker]

I don't care about men and women too just living like a bird

[SolitarySolace]

Apparently not miss I hate my own body when men call me pretty

[Asker]

No they say "sexy" in a bad way

[SolitarySolace]

How is it in a bad way?

[Asker]

In our dialect the word they say is close to the meaning of "sexy" but in a bad way, it's kinda like "you are just made for s€x , a fuckd0ll"

[SolitarySolace]

Well, then, you could always purposefully make yourself fat 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

I don't wanna gain weight hahahahaha but sometimes i go out without doing any effort or make up or hair done and still face it. Even mom noticed that i get a lot of stares in the street and was like "i am lucky when i was your age nk one ever stared at me or turned his head"

[SolitarySolace]

Than take the compliments doesn’t mean you have to fuck everyone who gives you a compliment even if the compliment is derogatory

[Asker]

Okay i need to be less shy and stop caring about stares.. i need to start doing what i like too and let it go

[SolitarySolace]

👍🏻

[Dargil]

I always thought it was veneration... beauty appreciation. Its only disrespect when they don't like it. Many women do like it.

[Asker]

I don't tbh and it disgust me and make me hate my body or how i look

[SolitarySolace]

That sounds like a personal problem

[DarkLegacy]

Why are some girls disrespectful and cringe at me in the street just for the slightest glance at their face or verbally abuse my physical appearance. Im not going anon by the way

[Snakeyes7]

If you live in a city then you are crammed with all sort of people so coming across weirdos is inevitable.

If you want to not be bothered by them then move to a more rural area and the number of catcallers will drop to zero.

[soe11]

• Should be penalty.
• The person is inhuman.
• We must respect to any human being.

[verylovelyguy]

why not? it's fun to get sexual attention from women

[Asker]

From women? I am speaking about men

[verylovelyguy]

that's what i mean. it's fun to have sexual interactions with women even if it's just verbal

[Asker]

But i hate it, i feel like like they degrade women by doing it, and the most ones who do it are ugly old men

[verylovelyguy]

that's life. deal with it

[DrPepper12]

It's supposed to be a complimentary mating call but it isn't effective.

[Nifrayu]

I truly don't get it. It's something I have never had the urge to do.