Does my coworker like me or am I delusional?

[Anonymous]

My coworker has never shown interest outwardly. However he does things that get me thinking. I said I was cold and he gave me his jacket, it could honestly just be a kind gesture but I was wondering. He also sprays his perfume on his neck and he asks me to smell his neck and let him know if it smells good. That could have been a genuine question. He always touches my head and hair just to tease me and he even gives me massages at time. I was also using the work computer and he just towered over me and used the computer he gets too close to me at times. I don't know i could be overthinking it but i am just interested to know if his behaviour is normal? Also i don’t get bothered by anything he does like we are chill.

[strawberrybaby3]

I’d say yes, this is sort of crossing the line beyond just being coworkers. A man is not going to touch a woman’s hair and give her massages if he thinks of her as just a friend. Even if he doesn’t like you or want to pursue you, he’s obviously attracted to you.

[strawberrybaby3]

Are you a receptionist by any chance?

[strawberrybaby3]

Because I work in a hair salon and it sounds like what a lot of the male stylists would do 😂😂😂

[DoggyDude]

I think its entirely unclear. I think he certainly is too comfortable around you to dislike you, and I would guess too he likes you, but to what degree is entirely unclear.

If you like him, you should esculate things at an appropriate time and see what happens. Though obviously be precautious because as someone you work with you need to be cautious to make sure whatever way it goes your comfortable to work together after.

Best of luck. Not delusional, but maybe a bit hopeful ;)

[WCM100]

Definitely seeking you a more specific way; yes he likes you but doesn’t wanna be weird about it but his emotions are saying different. Play it normal and only match his emoji you feel the same. Other than that keep it personal you don’t wanna get involved with someone who can’t react to negative emotion.

[slatyb]

" he asks me to smell his neck and let him know if it smells good." He's totally flirting. Are you interested?

[spartan55]

Sounds like you are projecting your feelings onto the situation.

[Anonymous]

The real question here is, do you want him to like you or to be into you? 😏🤔😆