My colleague and I quickly bonded. So one day when I was at our company quarters he invited me to see his quarters. Thank god the security intertwined and stopped.
He was a good friend and we hang out often. Until he stated small hints. Most of them I felt were sexual in nature. Like my body and he even went onn to suggest me some office wear that isn’t not just office inappropriate but revealing. I called out his action and threatened of having boyfriend.
He got furious to know I have boyfriend and lied of not having ( I actually don’t but lied to let him know his place)
Fast forward a while later we talked again he started being suggestive. I called him out and he tried manipulating me. I cut the call.
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You certainly did not get it wrong and this colleague of yours is a creep and a predator.
You were absolutely right to cut him off and to show him that you are not the type of person he thinks you are. Guys like that only have one specific intention and that is to get into your pants.
His reaction was obvious when you told him you had a boyfriend. He will not stop at anything to try to get you where he wants you to be. Be cautious with guys like that because they are no good.
Keep your dignity and self-esteem and don't let anyone try to talk you into doing something you don't want or are not comfortable with.
The best thing is to keep away from him. He’s not interested in you but what’s in your panties.