Why do you black women and white men hate one another? Black men and white women get along so well.
I don’t think hate is a component of this situation. I think it’s about preferences. At one point in my life I worked in a predominantly black unit. For a period of time I was the only white person at all! It allowed me to see and understand some things.
Many of the black women there really wanted to have a black man in their life for their relationships. This was a pretty consistent pattern. Also (not that race is a black/white dynamic only) the black women seemed to have only a passing interest in white men and none at all for Hispanic & Asians.
Meanwhile the black men I worked with were FAR more interested in women of any race, so long as they were what they felt was attractive. There were a few who felt that dating a white woman (as a black man) was akin to a status symbol or bragging point.
Add to this most people tend to date within their own race anyhow. Those who do date outside their own race usually do so with a race or culture they shared close proximity with. For example a young man who’s parents are assigned to a military base in Japan or maybe a family who lives in the Southwest and has a large Hispanic population. Since many historically black regions in the US are not very diverse culturally & racially this level of access is reduced.
These are generalizations but I’ve seen this dynamic in my life and travels.
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I can answer that. I'm black, so I've been around and lived with black women. They're just not attracted to white men most of the time. They wanna strictly limit themselves to black men. Not all the time, but that's their preference.
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From the few friends I know who are black males, who date white women, these white women don’t treat them like the way black women do. I’m sure there’s a handful who do. A lot of black women seem to have this attitude, put their men down. A lot of white women don’t do that. At least from what I’ve seen. I could be completely wrong. I know it’s not in the realm of dating but even working in medical. We have 3 black female nurses at night. A lot of times they have issues w the patients because of the way they go into the patient’s room talking to them. The same w the two nursing assistants who are also black females. You may think I’m just making this up to reinforce what I’m saying but no. They recently fired the medical assistant because she always had this attitude, not my job, always leaving to go see her friends on other floors. Again maybe I’m wrong but that’s just my experience in working w various women of color in the medical field.
I’m not exactly white but I’m olive white.
I’m generally considered white (not defined as white)
anyways, I’m not racist but I have never felt attracted to white and black women, I don’t know why maybe it’s biological or something.
I’m attracted to white (not real white), light brown, brown, dark brown or Latina color.
it’s not something I can control, it’s not that I find white and black women bad looking, it’s just I don’t see a potential.
I’ve dated black girls before. Some like me most don’t though 😂 I think some white guys feel like black girls would act abrasive towards them.
I'm supposed to hate black women now? ::Sigh:: I am SO far behind on my hatred quota; I'm never going to catch up at this rate.
Might as well give up and a have a beer.
That's odd. My daughter is in that type of relationship right now. So are a few of my cousins. I think the scope of your view is too narrow.
I'm a real dick when it comes to clear natural complexion with out make up and unfortunately that's hard to find with black girls. The color contrast tho is 🔥🔥🔥 for this white guy.
I came to Canada from Turkey and was beaten by a black man, but black people are very nice and sweet people.
I've had many black women flirt with me and I get along really well with them, but I get along with anyone. I don't know why you think black women and white men hate each other.
A lot of white men are scared to approach black women fearful she will assume he is using her as a fetish or that her family won't approve of him.
I thought that people are not fully black or white anymore. As mixed people are born over the generations it’s like skin color isn’t able to determine the persons core
I don't know maybe you need to travel more, get out of your bubble.
Women are much more susceptible to group think and herd mentality, which is why the wokie puppet masters focus on pushing white women to breed with blacks.
People who date to be woke piss me off. Nobody cares! Good luck raising the kid!
not hate, she prefers her own culture
I think it's becoming more common recently
Black women do not fancy white men.
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