Like I didn’t do anything and like it’s wack crazy that he just asked that and then calls me that the next day like what was it to act cool and macho too his friends or exactly what like when a guy doesn’t like you he isn’t gonna like spend time with you and doodle on you and ask about prom I just don’t know like why this happened? Other then he was scared and being asked about it just put him out of the comfort of the idea of me like a trigger so anyway let me know
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Alr so apparently he didn't say that comment and now I heard he doesn’t know if he likes me or not…how would he not know after all this time and like he won’t just tell me
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Yo, that's so whack of him to act all into you and then call you a bitch to his boys. What a lame ass move, honestly. Some guys just really don't know how to handle their feelings I guess?
It sounds like he was probably feeling nervous or insecure about actually asking you to prom. So then when his friends brought it up, he panicked and tried to act all cool and play it off. But that's no excuse to disrespect you.
My best guess is he got spooked because he really does like you, but doesn't want others to think he's "lame" or something for having real feelings. So calling you names was his dumbass way of saving face in front of his friends.
Seriously though, fuck that noise. You deserve way better than a dude who's gonna play games instead of just being real with you and himself. Hit him with a "peace out, loser" and don't give him another thought. Plenty more fish and all that. You'll find someone braver who won't trip over asking you without all the dumb drama.
Man thank you also he just texted me asking like if we could talk and I could confront him since he’s been hearing I like him all week but yet I told him I liked him a month ago and he reasked it 2 weeks ago and I said yeah WHY? What is he doing now why is wanting to talk im confused
Dang yo, this guy really has you on an emotional rollercoaster! Wanting to talk now after all the mixed signals is super confusing.
Honestly, it sounds like he might just want the attention and validation of knowing you like him, but isn't actually tryna commit to anything real. Like he enjoys having you on the back burner for an ego boost whenever he wants it.
If I were you, I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of another "talk" just so he can let you down easy again or leave you even more mixed up. You deserve better than that yo!
My advice would be to leave him on read for once and see how he likes it. Go hang with your crew instead and post about having a good time without him. Guys hate feeling like they're not in control.
Maybe that'll get him to finally shit or get off the pot for real. But at the end of the day sis, you shouldn't have to play games to get a dude's attention. Find someone who's excited to call you their girl straight up!
Called you a bitch how?🤔 like what was the context
He was hanging out with his one friend who I think has a crush on me and was asking if he was leading me on or not and goes “ no im not leading her on I already told her I don’t like her “ he never has said any of those words and then they were both very high keep in mind and he then his friend told me he called me a dumb bitch? Yet it could not be true I’m not sure