My cliche does he like me question...especially if he treats all girls the same?

[Anonymous]

i just have no idea how to tell if a guy likes me if he's one of my close friends and treats all girls the same. I know I've heard girls overthink things and guys are straight-forward and obvious but there is NOTHING obvious about this guy. how would I know if he liked me?

[learningthegame16]

I'd say he sees you only as a friend. Guys are pretty obvious when they like a girl and they'll treat her differently from others because they think she's different from all the other girls they knows.

Example 1: Going out of his way to do something for her that he doesn't do for anyone else. Like, going to a romantic movie with her or dressing more nicely when she's around.

Example 2: He'll be looking at you differently to other girls. It'd be like he was seeing you and they weren't in the room.

I'd say go with the assumption he only sees you as a friend until he gives you reason to think otherwise. Best of luck :)

[Anonymous]

probably not. if nothing stands out to you, then it's a safe bet you're just already girl friend to him

[Asker]

i said ALL girls. he treats every girl the same way. so you assume it's safe to say he likes no one? what you think he's asexual?

[Opinion Owner]

stop being do defensive. he does not treat ALL girls that way because you do not follow him around 24/7 monitoring every thing he does with a girl now do you?

[Asker]

nope but I do spend a lot of time with him around other girls. he treats us all the same. and really there are no other girls in his life except the few of us basically. and I wasn't being defensive. I was pointing out the potential faults of your statement.