I am crushing on my trainer. We have been working together for 3 months and we flirt and talk dirty to each other. There is touching obviously-a few times touching that wasn't really part of the job. One day he was just standing there with his arm around my waist while I was talking on my cell phone. He is always trying to get my attention while I am running and stuff. So anyway, there are things we have in common that he doesn't really know about because I don't tell him everything. I am happy how things are but I think about him some times while I am being intimate with myself. LOL.
What is this and should I do anything?
What is this and should I do anything?
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I am a personal trainer so let me give you some advice. This is a VERY common senario. Trust me he already knows how you feel. The guys at my gym actually have compititions so see who can lay more clients...discusting. How do you know you are the only cient he has done/does this to? Chances are this is common behaior for him. Sorry, I'm not trying to bust your bubble but I have seen this over and over again at the gym. Trainers are not suspossed to mix business with pleasure, but they OFTEN do. He is not suspossed to be touching you like that during a workout-very unprofessional. There was one trainer in particular who actually had semi-nude/nude pics of a couple of his clients! I can see how this could be a "hot" situaton, and if you just want to have sex with him and that's it-Id'd say go for it. but if you don't want to be "just aother client" I could "exercise" extreme caution lol
A guy I worked with in college was a personal trainer and asked me (much younger than him at the time) for advice. He asked if I thought it was okay to go out with a client. No, it isn't. Not in the slightest. It is ethically wrong. He is in a position of trust for you. As someone you look to for guidance. Of course when you are worked up you are going to feel something for your trainer, and especially if he helps you lose weight. you're going to admire him. My high school teacher got in the middle of a divorce during the school year because of this. It was hilarious for us! Yeah, trainers do this but I find it extremely unprofessional and makes the place look bad.
Yeah, I realize this is the least popular answer. In my opinion, get to know him outside of the gym, but either way I don't think it will really go anywhere.
Sounds hot.
Could be a potential relationship, but id be weary that it could not work out. Like, it sounds too good to be true for you maybe so I guess it could be but, try to keep a positive outlook on this fling you have with this guy. Could be the start of a wonderful relationship :)