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If a guy is 21 or older, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, always been single, should he give up? (Page 2)
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dude your not gonna get a girlfriend siting on your ass bitching about not having a g/f. get out there do stuff meet people and make your self known. stop feeling sorry for your self your really not that old and your life isn't over just cause you haven't gotten laid.
Seriously, girls have it so much easier.
Women can get a boyfriend whenever they want to.
Your a douchebag and piece of sh*t you know that? Who gives a f***, because even if you are a man and you have balls, confidence, you are still going to get rejected.
Gonna still get rejected huh? so that's why I do have a girlfriend that's why I have gotten laid. and that's why I'm gonna get married in a year. damn rejection really sucks......
im telling you want you need to hear! not what you want to. I'm not dancing around the subject I'm being blunt to you. there are many people in your situation. I know a guy whos in his 30's and still hasn't had a g/f... my uncle didn't get married till he was 45! so ur life isn't over because you don't have a girl yet.
I don't give a f***, I've lost count on the number of times I've been rejected and I can't take it anymore!!!
I think it just came out as normal. Guys tend to have more of an ego when it comes to girls and I think guys like to be the "chaser" in a romantic relationship.
I hate taking the initiative, I hate asking girls out because I am sick and tired of being rejected, every girl that I asked out in school last semester had a f***in' boyfriend already, I did not know they had a boyfriend until I asked them out. I feel I have been rejected more than the average 21 year old guy has.
Personally yes I think that 21 is too old to still be living with your parents but I don't think that that should stop you going after a girl then again you might be picky when it comes to women.
So should I move out of my parents house first before it comes to getting a girl?
Yes that's true but I think guys are supposed to be able to handle these types of things. In a female perspective.
How come it matters more if a guy lives on his own compared to girls?
Maybe but if your not able to look for a girl who doesn't mind. I have never minded a guy that lives with his parents. It was kind of awkward but other then that there parents were in the house.
Im the same way...Except I've never asked a girl out =P
Hang in there man, I'm sure their is a nice girl without a boyfriend for you. =)
21? Geez, give yourself a break! I didn't know anything about what life was about or what I really wanted when I was 21. Why do you want everything right away? Just be open to what life brings, and you will find someone.
Don't commit suicide, it'll work out. You seem really sweet and I understand the whole economy thing. 21 isn't too bad, but you will want to leave when you get the chance. Also a lot is attitude, if you think your a complete loser than people might see you as that. Just think about yourself as getting off the ground. Say your parents live with you instead of you live with them. you can do it
I'm not the person to ask that question. You should probably ask someone else.
Look 👀 for a girl every day to you bring one home, ps five times I ask the girl for a date she says I have a boyfriend than six time I got the date
I don't understand your thought process here. How can a guy like this give up when he clearly hasn't even started?
I was older before I lost supposedly my virginity. A way older than you. I have now been married over 40 years and love every minute of it as if it was my first time. Good luck on your decisions.
You have a psychological problem which is why you think the women situation is such a big deal which it really isn't. I'd highly advice therapy.
Just go t
to the strip club and ask a girl if they want to have sex and pay them.
Just get hookers man. Girls are too picky sometimes.
Have you ever paid for sex before? Anyway my life has turned out different since I posted this question but I am on a long dry spell so I feel tempted to do that
, I mean might as well you’re going be a virgin
It’s going to be depressing than not depressing especially if you realize that it’s passing you by
So my guess is you've never had to resort to paying for sex
I can’t tell you you would have to find out for yourself
Well get off the computer and get out there!
I do, but they are always taken already, or not interested.
maybe it because your shy do you ask girls out?
I do ask girls out, it's not like I have never done it before, it's because they are always taken already!!!!!!!
Lol why don't you try asking girls out who aren't taken. (those girls are called single). and beyond that. Your main focus shouldnt be just having a girlfriend, try making friends first and then it might lead to something eles.
I KNOW THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, IT'S NOT BECAUSE I LIKE GIRLS WHO ARE TAKEN ALREADY, IT'S JUST THAT WHEN I SEE A GIRL THAT IS PRETTY AND CUTE, IT MAKES ME WANT TO APPROACH HER AND TALK TO HER, AND THEN WHEN I ASK HER OUT, SHE SAYS "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH".
Apparently your upset. and its most defintly not my fault that you have girlfriend issues I'm just trying to help
I know that it is not your fault, it's just that you interpreted my question in the wrong way, what I mean is, I find out a girl is taken when I ask her out. I wish I knew a girl was single before I start talking to her.
Sometimes you must just wait. like I said don't be so preoccupied in the fact that a girl is a taken or single or you want to be her bf. Sometimes making friends with lots of people when they do become availiable you'll be there for them.
I wish girls would put a sign or sticker on them that says "single" or "taken", that what I don't waste my time talking or flirting with a girl who is taken already.
Ur hilarious. the point of life isn't to have a gf. I've never had a boyfriend before. and yes you will play the I'm only 16 and ur 21 card. but the age is not my point my point is that it takes its own time. If its not ment to be right now it will happen later, be patience and calm. relax its not the end of the world.
I don't want it to be later, I don't want to have my first girlfriend when I am 25 or 30.
Seriously, girls have it so much easier when it comes to dating.
C'mon, girls are never going to chase guys, so I have to chase them.
I just wish there was a girl to find out if a girl was single or taken before I make any effort to flirt with her and pursue her.
Girls just have to look good in order to attract guys, that's all, period, but us guys have to be more than that
No doesn't bother me...I'm in the same boat.
How old are you? you have always been single as well?
18, and yes I have always been single. It kinda sucks, no I take that back. It really sucks!
Well at least you are younger than me, I am 21, and you are a girl, so you have it easier, you don't have to take the initiative, because guys will ask you out.
What about me I'm 32 and same boat
Nope, guys get better with age.
100 years old?
Well, maybe not that old; but 30-50 is better than 18-29.
where are you live?