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Please Do Not Hate On Breastfeeding Mothers (Page 2)
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You should never get any negativity for doing something that is natural & by design. People need to mind their own fecking business. Breast is best for the first few months. Both my 2 , son & daughter , drunk their mother dry within a few weeks , so I took over with bottle feeds , but at least they got the all important colostrum & prebiotics.
Yes! Colostrum and probiotics is huge. Seals the digestive tract. Babies can bond at the breast or with bottles.
I understand how difficult it must be and unfortunately my wife was denied that special bond a mother can have with his child. She did not give any breast milk so we had to use formula. But I don't mind when a mother breast feeds a child it is a part of being human but its not easy for people to understand that its natural and it has to be done.
That happens sometimes! In some cases formula is the best option. Thank you for the support!
I’m sorry you went through that and it’s hard to believe that people are still so ignorant but reality is they are and I guarantee you this if I’m somewhere and someone is giving a breastfeeding mom a hard time I’m gonna jump there shit and always have anyways you and your baby are beautiful and just be patient and try different things this advice works throughout their whole life and sometimes you have to be very creative
Thank you for the support and advice! Patience is key to parenting indeed.
What a truly wonderful thought inspiring MyTake, and one that comes straight from the heart.
Thank you for perhaps enlightening those that have no, or very little idea what new mums plus babies have to go though.
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Throwing hate on breastfeeding moms always gets on my nerves, I think it's super hypocritical. People don't bat an eye to ladies wearing super revealing mini bikinis (or topless) but the one time the breasts are being used for their one true function, and everyone lose their heads.
So very true. Thank you for saying that.
"People don't bat an eye to ladies wearing super revealing mini bikinis (or topless) but the one time the breasts are being used for their one true function, and everyone lose their heads." Maybe the problem is because they wear bikinis in a designated area like in a beach or in a club full of pervs who just stares and not warn them because it would be different if you wear bikini in a city park, church, office, buses or wherever pubic place anyone can go. I guarantee it's gonna make people lose their heads. If you say breasts aren't really sexual organs, then how come no girls walk around with proper attire only with their boobs popping out from their chest? How come girls have the decency to hide their boobs and feel harassed even if it's accidentally touched? Here's a fact for you, as much as you like to deny it's a sexual organ, you can't deny the fact that boobs are linked to how much estrogen you have which is a sex drive for women, boobs/nipple orgasm exist for both men and women but women experiences it better and girls get aroused when they breastfeed but if it's all natural, it's also only natural for guys to get turned on by boobs as well. You can deny it all you want but in the end, you're just looking for people who agrees with you and they're automatically correct and that's it.
Ok. you can breast feed in a club or beaches if you wanna do it in public but don't say i didn't warn you.
@Aiko_E_Lara your lack of education on the purpose of mammary glands is showing and it is annoying.
That argument is an argumentum ad hominem. Can you try again? If you're educated yourself, you should know how dumb that makes you sound
@Aiko_E_Lara The main function of mammary gland is producing milk for the offspring. If a child gets hungry, no mother will let her baby fuss and cry for a long time until she finds a suitable place. I get that most women like to cover but a lot of kids are VERY fussy and don't like to have a blanket over their heads while they feed.
Main function doesn't always mean it is always seen that way. So if you are single and you never had a child or you're planning to never have one but you have boobs, is it still planned to use for breastfeeding then? What if i also tell you that boobs orgasm already exist before you even have a child. So yes that still explains how boobs had been sexual in the first place. That's just like saying the main part of our private parts are just for peeing because that's what we use more often. Also there is that excuse again "babies are uncomfortable" you realize that all babies are always uncomfortable whenever they are out of the wombs for the first time? Which is why they cry. But the thing is they always have the capability to adapt as they grow up and that's the same thing if you train them early breastfeeding under a cover. Sure i am not a mom but i was once a breastfeed child even born a tropical country but did i care? Chances are you were as well but let's be real. you don't remember it
The only reason why your babies are getting uncomfortable now is because they may be older. But it's always not too late.
it to help life to keep life going to be kind and caring to a life force growing aka a babie i dont see what the big deal if anything we shouldn't shame it be be proud, i never seen a woman do it thought so guess where ever this place is that breastfeedling ain't close by lol but i think it a beautiful thing and shouldn't look down on by anyone not a friend or the dad or sisters and brothers or bosses , nothing wrong with help life to keep going on
Thank you very much for the support
ur welcome np how u holding up
Holding up well thank you :)
awesome
I never would disapprove of a woman feeding her child,
The only reason why there are both men and women disapprove of a woman feeding her child is that they were bottle fed along with their siblings and they never learned about breast feeding at home and they only see breasts in a sexual connotations, In my family breast feeding is common and it is not seen as anything out of the ordinary.
Yes. Very true. It’s sad. Mammary glands we designed to feed our young. How did so many get so far removed from that?
No one should ever hate a breastfeeding mother, even if she does so very openly. However, ladies should be very aware that they can be recorded doing so and the images/video publicly shared on the net.
It concerns me when one doesn't think about such consequences just to show up on voyeuristic websites.
Whereas the act is taking place within full public view, it's not considered "revenge porn" which is difficult to prosecute anyway. Moreover, because the recording isn't the property of the lady, it can't be removed through a DMCA takedown notice.
Just remember ladies, if you're doing it in public, it's available for the world to view.
If some depraved person wants to video me nourishing my child I can live with that. I just don’t want to be openly ridiculed.
Fair enough. As long as you were aware of that up front. What I'd hope is that someone that hasn't thought it through, whips 'em out in public and then becomes the focus of unwanted attention on these voyeuristic websites.
Some of these ladies, along with their S. O., really freak out when someone starts recording.
Well it is illegal and an invasion of one’s privacy to film them without consent.
With respect, no it isn't. There is where the problem stems. When one does this in public view, there's no expectation of privacy. An outside observer can record it and, not only is there really nothing the subject can do, but the recording fully belongs to the one recording it.
This argument has went on for sometime now; and it's not limited to just the United States or one particular state. If you do the research, it's something that happens quite frequently and the subject matter ends up being quite surprised. There are situations where the photographer gets threatened and the police get called. Ultimately, the photographer is completely protected whereas others are actually sited, if not arrested.
The point is not to argue whether one should be allowed to indiscreetly show their breasts in public, even for the purpose of breastfeeding; or whether one should be able to record such. The real point is knowing that recording one breastfeeding is perfectly legal and sharing such photos on voyeuristic websites are also legal. To deny such is just opening one's self up to unwanted attention.
I never understand why people make such a big deal about women breastfeeding but it's okay for women to be at a public beach where there's families and small children with dental floss up their a$$ they call a bikini 🤦🙄
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I know right? Freaking a$$ floss.
Neither is right miss brains muffins...
It's not a big deal if a woman breastfeeds her baby in public as long as she covers herself...
You must also have respect for your husband, no husband is going to be happy for his wife showing her boobs to the whole world under the name of breastfeeding unless he's a dork or stupid and doesn't care about his wife!
Now about the bikini thing, if i had a wife or a daughter they won't dare to buy such bikinis and go to the beach to shake and show their asses to the whole world! 😏
doesn't bother me if you breast feed in public, what bothers me is that I can't watch a child eating without being viewed as a sex offender.
For those asking why would you be watching?
Well, its an uncommon sight and therefore interesting, I have seen everything else a million times before.
If someone came up to me and smiled and said something kind about me breastfeeding that would be very much appreciated. 😊
That would be almost as risky as flashing my genitals at you, so no, that isn't going to happen.
Just bear in mind that at least some of the people awkwardly looking away aren't doing so because of what you but because of how they might be percieved by others.
Ok. Fair enough. I think you would be surprised how subtle it is. I’ve chit chatted with people while nursing and I’m not even sure they noticed. Just thought I was cradling my baby.
If anyone got a issue with a mom Trynna breast feed then ur thinking is wrong 🤷🏻♀️. Your mothers did the same , and it’s apart of life. If you see it in public then don’t stare simple as that. I’m sure the mothers are aware of their surroundings and do it in safer places when they decide to. But what I hate seeing is them being shamed for it or sexualizing it.
So true. Thank you for the support.
Wow! That is such a sad story!! I am so sorry for you to have had to go through that. Thank goodness it got better and he is a strong and inquisitive little bugger now. Finding his moms toys… lol!
This was a good post though! I don’t usually read mytakes. But yours are always interesting and usually thought provoking. So thanks!!
Thank you so much for reading and for the support!
I do absolutely support breast feeding! I do however still find them a huge turn on and so I do also bag for coverage when breastfeeding… unlike the whole free the nipple thing. But I mean It does really bug me how mothers are treated in general by the public.
Yes. People are quick to judge mothers. It’s sad.
I've honestly never understood why people have such a problem with breastfeeding. It must have been a hard enough time time you let alone have others judgements and condemnation on you as well.
Since I've been on here I've been surprised at a lot of people's views and dislikes, I guess most of the people I know are quite open minded.
Aww... tiny little fella , cute too.
Just because you have your teet out feeding your baby and taking care of him doesn't mean people should shame you or harass you for it.
My God just the women have time alone to feed and take care of the little one (s) , if I see a mother breastfeeding she deserves to be left alone and if she isn't left alone and I see someone bothering them I'd make sure they're left alone
Thank you! For the kind words and support! 🥰
You're more than welcome friend
I think breast feeding is beautiful not enough women make or priority or we would see it much more. Breast milk is best for the baby. Keep them Strong healthy and smart.
Awwww thanks for saying that @Tiptoetamm
Its only the truth lovie. Someone needed to say it lol. I have friend that was harrassed in coffee shop for breast feeding she even had a blanket over her she is my best friend and her baby is my God daughter so I was super pissed. I politely asked him then dont look over here and you won't see it will you.
Soooo true. Common sense really.
Some people just have no common sense drives me nuts lol
Breastfeeding is amazing and I applaud you for doing it rather than feeding formula. No one should hate on breastfeeding mothers! It is definitely a sacrifice and a noble one.
But please, as a courtesy to the others around you, just make a reasonable effort to cover up when doing it in public. That part is not that hard but I think most people appreciate it.
Thank you so much for the support! Baby’s head covers the boob. 😊
The babies head sometimes covers the boob, and sometimes doesn't. A small blanket or other items is best.
Mothers who breastfeed are awesome. I know it is a huge sacrifice and far from easy, but it's the best thing for the baby, by far. Any father (or any man) who doesn't appreciate that sacrifice is a dufus.
Sometimes I would have a burp cloth handy in case he spit up and set that on my boob lol.
That's cool, but covering up is best. It's just common courtesy.
Cheers.
No straight man who likes tits disapproves of this.
But I'm obviously gonna have trouble maintaining eye contact if I'm talking to a woman doing this.
I wanna hear from the two women and one man who disliked me on this.
Lol me too!
There's a difference between liking & being a slave to them. And if a woman breastfeeding turns you on, you got your head in the wrong place.
He is not a slave to tits lol
@hahahmm Well, I feel uncomfortable in strip clubs so I doubt I'm a "slave" which is a poor choice in words to begin with.
But I'm gonna assume you're gay or asexual since there are two parts of any woman that typically take a lot of unattractiveness to turn me and most men off anyway and tits are one of them. I enjoy tits, sucking on tits is something that I've yet to experience but would probably be pretty damn fun. Touching them is pretty fucking awesome so, yeah, of course breastfeeding is arousing, the vast majority of straight men would probably agree with me on that one.
Plus it's just an excellent sign that she's fertile, maternal and ready for my turtle.
That's not actually what I call my penis by the way I just needed another rhyme.
Breasts are secondary sexual traits and so are male breast hair, beard etc. Breasts are for babys and not for perverted men. Just because you can't control your urges, a baby should not starve because of your stupidity.
Any bastard who have problem with public breastfeeding, should not look at it or we should force to cover their beard etc.
Agreed. They are literally mammary glands designed to feed our young.
I really dont understand why some people think female breasts are sexual organs. This is scientificically and biologically false.
Yet they seem to want to argue this misguided stance to death. Ugggghhhh
I’m a good pervert I guess and I definitely can control my urges. As a man we almost all appreciate the female body I mean come on you ladies are nice to look at even some gay men would say the same thing and I love women’s breast’s but there’s nothing sexual or dirty or at all inappropriate about a mother breast feeding her babies and all these dudes with the hang ups are the bad perverts who have to stare or let it bother them and just know ladies that not all men are losers like that and some of us wouldn’t tolerate them acting that way and don’t let these jerks on here that are loud when behind a screen up set you it only makes them feel big until they look in a mirror and remember who they really are
Agree
Just get comfortable with people staring. That's all I have to say on it. Even if you're feeding your child, if you pull a naked breast out just accept people watching
Thank you for the support. :) I get a lot of hate on this post and cringe when I get notifications. I appreciate you saying something nice. 😊
Surprised it even showed in my feed. Noticed how long ago it was posted after I replied 😅
I shows up randomly every few days. 😂 I have no idea why.
You have your own gravitational force to this post lol
Apparently I do. Lol. It is a cause close to my heart both literally and figuratively.
My lovely bride and I had 3 boys all of whom were breast fed. It's undeniable the benefits a child receives from it as well as the connection between mom and baby. I think it's just disgusting the number of people who have an issue with this. If it's truly a problem for you, look the other damn direction.
To all the young Moms and parents out there, do your thing and enjoy your time with them, it passes so quickly!
What lovely things to say! Thank you! I agree 100% and appreciate the support. :)
I don't hate ON anything! I have no clue HOW to hate ON anything!
As you should know, I have no issue at all with breastfeeding. Why is it okay to see other mammals do it but not our own kind?
Even stranger: why is it okay for a girl to whip `em out on a beach or at a party just to let people look at them but it's obscene and disgusting to use them for one the main reasons they're there?