Why do flat chested girls and girls with no curves on gag assume that just because a girl has big breasts and a shapely behind that she is fat?

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I swear some girls on here are jealous of curvy women 

I remember seeing female users on here saying that in america most girls are overweight which is why they have large breasts

And I see girls who describe themselves as slim to no curves say a girl who has a big butt usually has more body fat

I don't go around calling flat chested girls with no shape or behind men online men so I do not understand why skinny girls who have no curves ASSUME that girls with large bosoms and a shapely behind are overweight

And yes I am perfectly aware that skinny women can have curves but it's the girls who usually admit to being almost ruler shaped dissing curvy women

Mesonfielde · Accepted Answer

Haha, well there's an entire website dedicated to ultra-skinny people hating on people who actually store a semblance of fat on their body so that they won't break from a gentle breeze (yeah, @lumos would bitch at me for thin shaming again but if she reads anything on this wonderful website she'd forgive me):
www.skinnygossip.com/kate-upton-is-well-marbled/

For me, personally, this is far more attractive:
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(picture from curveappeal.tumblr.com/.../uk-size-16-on-bottom-and-14-on-top-ive-never )

Technically though, those flat chested no curve girl on GAG diss on anyone with breasts because of the same reason why i used to hate my green eyes. I really used to hate them because "they weren't brown, even though people really love only brown". Okay, not really the same phenomenon, just sort of - redirecting the analysis to something in your physical appearance so that you don't need to attack your self and behavior.

As such, they end up hating because they think the reason why people don't find them attractive is because they are fat. So they try to lose weight. Then they take pride in "being better" than those who have not lost weight. But what they end up with is more-so an eating disorder. People shouldn't starve themselves to want to look "better". It doesn't look better. Not to me, anyways.

"Killing Us Softly 4" is a documentary on advertising's effect on women, and how it creates skewed and unrealistic expectations towards one's body type and appearance. It is worth watching as it is fairly relevant.

BertMacklinFBI · Accepted Answer

they be jelly. all the haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate.

Lauren2410 · Accepted Answer

God, I can't stand all the judgmental and butthurt people around here. According to society there's nothing wrong with shaming a fat girl because "she deserves it" but as soon as a skinny girl is insulted, they all jump and start complaining. SHAMING IS BAD, no matter the weight. Just because the girl is fat or she is very thin, does not mean she doesn't have feelings. You are no better for saying "I wouldn't date you, you're too fat/skinny" than any other people who insult. And that's what you people don't get.
I have seen girls with curves who were skinny, like I have also seen (and am one) bigger girls with small boobs or bum , but nice hips. And so on.
Another thing people don't get is that curves indeed imply "fat". Having just muscle would not make you curvy. So you have fat. You aren't fat, you just have it, like everyone does.
So it is NEVER ok to shame someone , too skinny or obese, for the way they look even if they got there and not because of a health condition. I wouldn't shame others for being overweight/too skinny, because I myself am overweight, if not fat, and have been insulted. And it sucks. But people don't care, because it's "ok" to shame a fat girl or a too skinny one right? I have 2 friends that no matter how much they eat they will always be skinny. That doesn't give anyone the right to pick on that. People who do this are NOTHING more than immature, judgmental and shallow people and if I ever run into one again, I will at least think I am lucky to not have such a friend/boyfriend.

Ananchor · Accepted Answer

Here is the issue even in the media when someone describes a fat woman they attempt to be politically correct and call her curvy.
I was looking at a website that was supposedly tailored to curvy woman and all the models on the site weren't curvy, they were plus size models. It's got everything to do with your bone structure, your bmi and where you carry your fat. I expected this site to have clothes with pinched in waists and extra room the bottom and top to accommodate a large breast and butt. But all it was was plus size clothing
I'm 34H, 25, 40 and I'm 5-8
I don't look fat, or plus size, I'm curvy, I have muscle tone.
Ask for the girls who are naturally very lean and have little curves being down on woman with more curves... It's the age old "you always want what you don't have" everyone is in someway insecure and wants whatever perfect body they have in their heads. Just ignore it. As long as the person in question is healthy, then they should be left alone. Naturally lean women should be told to eat a sandwich snd naturally fuller women should be told to eat nothing. But while I say that, no woman should be 300 pounds, call it fat shaming if you will, it's unhealthy. No average height woman should weight 80 pounds either.
Forget about who's boobs or ass is bigger, or smaller women need to stop picking on each other

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

Umm I'm flat chested, but I don't hate fat girls.

In fact, when people call me curvy or curvylicious, fat chicks get mad cuz I'm not fat. Sorry, I still have a small waist and big butt. My breasts are small but proportional to my body. I still have thickness, but I have a flat stomach and tiny waist. Yet fat chicks in my school would get mad and say I was "too skinny" to be considered curvy. Lol, sorry I don't have rolls. Skinny girls can have curves too you know?

And fat girls tend to mistake fat with curvy. Nope. It's just a euphemism. Now people don't take the word curvy for what it is, and if a woman considers herself curvy, it's automatically assumed she's fat. I've seen fat chicks with small boobs. I've seen fat chicks with no ass. Fat and curvy are not the same thing. A skinny chick can have boobs, a fat chick can have boobs, a skinny chick can have ass, a fat chick can have ass.

I guess it boils down to jealousy. Some fat girls get mad when slim chicks with curves are referred to as curvy. Some skinny chics get mad when a girl has bigger boobs. It happens both ways. Some girls just let envy control their words.

been_waiting · Accepted Answer

I have never encountered this. However, the average US woman is overweight, and every year as average weight increases, as does breast size so they've got a point there.

All the women on here who aren't "curvy" usually just say they envy curvier women.

And assuming someone might be overweight is definitely not the same as insulting a girl by saying she's flat chested and a man. You are clearly just trying to take a dig at whoever said they think curvier women are overweight and its petty. You can't just sneak an insult in there and say "yeah, good thing I don't say that (even though I just did) cause that would be mean! "

Plus, on this site curvy is code word for overweight... a girl will say "do guys like curvy girls? By the way I'm 255 pounds." So that might be a source of misunderstanding

chocolatedragon · Answer

Fat has too much of a negative stigma lol. Fat is good for the body. Your body's cell membranes need it to properly function, your body also needs it for warmth and to cushion your organs. What's bad is having too much fat to the point of obesity. So thick girls do have fat, but a healthy amount. And overweight wise, I don't think so because height and muscle mass are also factors and not everyone can fit the same weight range in a given sample.

Fat as in obese and somewhat morbidly obese could be this.
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This could be in the middle of chubby and obese. Some may consider it thick, but I don't think so.
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And this would be thick. (Healthy amount of fat)
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People need to understand that fat is bad when in excess, but it is important for the body.

lumos · Answer

Well you know, thicker women do tend to think that skinny girls are bitches, so the hate is not exactly one-sided.
However, with that being said, I'm flat chested myself and I've never looked down on girls with curves just because they have curves. That's a bit silly imo. I wouldn't want anyone to look down on me because I don't have any curves, so it would be hypocritical of me to do it to someone else.

Shpongolia · Answer

I think overweight girls try to blur the line between curvy and fat. And it has a lasting impact on society's perceptions. Since skinny girls don't have very many curves, and fat chicks call themselves curvy, they resort to calling curvy girls fat.

I hate it too. Because I'm really attracted to curvy women, and people assume I'm a chubby chaser when I'm not.

bubble_tea · Answer

I don't assume that, but I'm also not ruler-shaped, rather pear-shaped. I can only guess it from a scientifical standpoint.

"A study of the shapes of over 6,000 women, carried out by researchers at the North Carolina State University circa 2005, found that 46% were banana (rectangular), just over 20% pear, just under 14% apple, and 8% hourglass."

Most women are bananas, pears and apples. Women having an hourglass shape is rare. Chances are, when you have big tits AND a big butt, you're going to have big thighs and big waists too.

whatsername · Answer

First off I am overweight and have small or average breasts. So don't assume that what I am about to say is from a skinny person...

Breasts and butts are fat. They are literally large sacs of fat. that is what they are. Everyone has fat, but that doesn't mean you are overweight.

Anonymous · Answer

You can be 'curvy' at any size. Curvy= hour glass. And breasts are about 20% fat. If you are thin you are less likely to have large breasts. Fat people are much more likely to have big breasts. DDs are extremelyyy rare on a size 0 and extremely common on fat people.. do the math. It scientific fact that the greater the fat stores a person has the larger the breasts and/or butt, hence why they decrease when people lose weight. Especially the butt as it's just muscle and fat and less prone to genetic predisposition. So yes if you have larger boobs or a larger butt you are much more likely to be overweight. And yes there is a difference between curvy and fat. Curvy can occur at any size, in fact its more likely to occur in those who aren't grossly overweight- its a sort of middle ground between skinny and bordering on overweight usually.

SandPlanet · Answer

There are curvier girls who shame skinny girls and there are skinny girls who shame curvier girls. Either way, the reason for their need to shame each other is a mix of immaturity, ignorance, and last but not least, jealousy.

lordAlex818 · Answer

Chubby, curvy and fat are three completely different things that are often confused. To me, slim is better than all 3 (and it seems like a majority of men stand by me in this. Just look at Hollywood or modeling agencies like Victoria's Secret).
Anyways, all to often do you see fat and chubby girls calling themselves curvy. They're not. They're overweight, unhealthy, and (in many cases) unattractive.

kheserthorpe · Answer

"I remember seeing female users on here saying that in america most girls are overweight which is why they have large breasts" This is factually correct. The rest, whatever, it goes both ways.

CommieDearest · Answer

But you just did?  And I haven't seen this tbh. Let's not body shame anyone, k?

dartmaul15 · Answer

I have not seen ANY cases of such behavior! Just for your information. WHERE do you see such claims? links please!

T-shirtsandkneehighs · Answer

I'm definitely not jealous of "curvy" girls.
You're suggesting that there's something wrong with having a flat chest or no curves but a lot of people prefer that figure. So don't complain about skinny girls dissing curvy girls when you're doing the same thing

RenoTheGambler · Answer

In all honesty @Shpongolia is right. Most women try and blur the line between curvy, thick and fat. There is a clear line between curvy, thick, fat and chubby. Also, by claiming slim women are jealous of you is just a way for you to feel good about yourself by lying to yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Jealously If it helps which prob doesn't but I don't care about that and it's stupid and it's also insecure you gotta remember women Like that and not sure if you are or not but they want that image of curves and boobs and butt and This coming from a slim women with small boobs (B) and averge butt

Flat4 · Answer

I can't speak for the girls, but i think skinny, even flat chested girls knock curvy aka heavy girls out the park when it comes being attractive and of course sexy.

Just have to look around to see this is a view held by maaaaaaaany girls and guys

LastGirlScout · Answer

Because quite often, if you have a big ass the rest of you is a carrying a bit more weight. Same goes for boobs, I jump to the conclusion that skinny girls don't have curves because the majority don't.

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

jealousy. its the same thing as saying a thin girl must be anorexic or not a real woman another way for insecure girls to put other women down and make themselves seem better in comparison

Izzy2102 · Answer

Because they are. No one is saying that having a bit of fat isn't a good thing, but truth is fat is fat. Just because sexualize it when stored in certain areas doesn't make it any different

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Most girls in America are overweight... 0_0 I like being flat chested and skinny, holla

jamaall89 · Answer

I love big asses and thick thighs! Nothing wrong with thinner women either. I like both, but prefer thick these days

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