I work with young people with Special needs, including Autism, and you might be surprised that they are very wise and have an incredible imagination that could take you into a whole new world. I also have a close boy mate who has a mild case of autism but yet he is studying aat. So no i wouldn't have a problem, however, for some people they might find it frustrating as they like to stick to the same routine, asking the same questions and wanting things their own way, but the right person could help them learn and help them with independence. Their creativity would keep you entertained too!
Its just like anything else really, its just a thing people have and live with really just like I have to live dyslexia, its really just one of those cards in life people are delt.
As for my personal expreince I hada good freind in my college class last year that had it this and he was dam smarter than most of the other class mates. Tooke him a while to get my sense of humour though ahah : )
I mean from my point of view I see it as someone being more unique then others. They were born like that and they shouldn't be ashamed. I know a guy that has autism and he's one of the funniest , caring men I know. If he's loving & has all the things im looking for in a guy then just like any other guy I would give him a chance. I don't know if I could ever fully comprehend his everyday struggles but there are many guys out there that have autism and are still very handsome.
Don't worry, even psychologists don't have us completely worked out. Nobody will probably understand what it's like, and we're the worst people in the world to ask about describing how we feel, so that doesn't help either
I would date a chick with asburgers or any other form of autism that is higher functioning, I'm patient enough and , I KNOW imma get a lot of hate for this, but I am only okay with higher functioning cause it doesn't physically affect how you look and I wouldn't have to care for them like a child. Any chick with higher functioning autism is gonna have her quirks, but for a chick I'm in love with ill help her and accept them😊
There was an autistic child in my elementary school that would mumble about how he was going to murder all the humans on earth. Also I've heard there's a form of autism that is only positive ex. Super focus, sensory blending etc.
In conclusion I am unable to generalize autism as good or bad.
I used to date an autistic guy. However it did not work out. Even though I'm shy, I love new experiences and changes and other people. Not to mention madturbation and gaming turning more important than me. We were too different. So no, I don't think I could date an autistic guy again.
Autism itself is nothing bad in my opinion. But autistic people need someone who will understand it and who's personality will match with the auristic person.
Yeah, people with aspergers put their obsessions first. We absolutely need them to relax. We cannot survive without our obsessions and other things we use to unwind. It is a lot more work than you might realize for us to act normal, or even come close to it.
Well obviously we all need time to relax. We all need time for ourselves and I understand autistic people need it more. I just want to make it clear I was no being clingy. I wanted to have my own time and I respected his, but we were too different.
I have NLD Nonverbal Learning Disorder which is very similar to Aspergers, it affects my social life greatly it's hard to make friends, it's hard for me to understand social scenarios. And yes it does feel like a prison of the mind. NLD is loosely classified as an Autism spectrum disorder.
I have Asperger's syndrome. It's harder for me to date someone. I've been regarded as attractive before plenty of times but I truly do not believe myself. I mean, I'm decent looking. It's a gift and a curse. I a lot of the time feel that I'm too socially inept and I can't get around sometimes as a result. I'm better functioning than a variety of others I know, but there's still stuff lacking.
I'm not exactly autistic but I'm not "normal" at least that is what the specialist said when my parents took me to get checked for autism 8 years ago. She said I was "right on the line" whatever that means.
I can have a normal conversation with someone who is autistic as I can really understand how they feel around most people. I can talk to most anybody normally really. In school I never really studied but I didn't need to as I just did the work and easily got B's and A's. Didn't graduate though. I left there at the last.
Never really though about it, as long as they weren't to crazy obsessive. This one kid in my class had it and he would obsess about the time, as soon as the second hand of the clock hit a certain time ( when the class was suppose to be finished) he would stand up and announce VERY loudly that the class was over, cutting off the teacher and it was slightly annoying. But personally I wouldn't have a problem with it, they are unique if it's not too sever, and incredibly smart.
I am 25 years old and lived with Aspergers Syndrome my whole life. It is high functioning Autism on the spectrum. It affected my social life and makes it hard for me to understand social cues and social interactions. I come off as odd and weird to most people. I can't get a girlfriend either.
My SO has Asperger Syndrome, which to some psychologists falls under the umbrella of autistic spectrum. He looks normal and acts normal, his situation is not severe, but still has problems to communicate.
I'm not autistic but Iv had seizures as a baby and I had to have surgery for it when I was 6 and Iv been seizure free since but some of my teammates on my soccer team some of them have autism but I wouldn't date any one with autism or a disability because people with out disabilitys can speak more clearly and are easy to understand what there saying we're as some people with disabilities autism can be hard for me to understand
I would be quite upset if when i have a kid he/she is autistic. Not only does it cost a butt load of money but we wouldn't be able to have the same experiences.
Most people are now saying that aspies and auties are the same thing. They are not. Aspies are cool, Auties are animals who need to be put in a fricken zoo.
I have a friend who has been diagnosed with mild Asperger's syndrome (which, as you probably know, is a type of higher-functioning autism). I get on well with him. But, many other people seriously dislike him.
I'm in a wheelchair already and I need a lot of help so I don't think I would date some one with autism (but then again it depends how severe they have got it) but people I have met people with autism and they are just incredible.
It depends ont he Autistic range. Are they mentally handicapped? Are they a Genuis with aspbergers? Or do they have a few behavoirs int he Autistic range like my Friend whoiis jsut a smart yet socially awkward guy with anxiety issues?
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I work with young people with Special needs, including Autism, and you might be surprised that they are very wise and have an incredible imagination that could take you into a whole new world. I also have a close boy mate who has a mild case of autism but yet he is studying aat. So no i wouldn't have a problem, however, for some people they might find it frustrating as they like to stick to the same routine, asking the same questions and wanting things their own way, but the right person could help them learn and help them with independence. Their creativity would keep you entertained too!
Its just like anything else really, its just a thing people have and live with really just like I have to live dyslexia, its really just one of those cards in life people are delt.
As for my personal expreince I hada good freind in my college class last year that had it this and he was dam smarter than most of the other class mates. Tooke him a while to get my sense of humour though ahah : )
I mean from my point of view I see it as someone being more unique then others. They were born like that and they shouldn't be ashamed. I know a guy that has autism and he's one of the funniest , caring men I know. If he's loving & has all the things im looking for in a guy then just like any other guy I would give him a chance. I don't know if I could ever fully comprehend his everyday struggles but there are many guys out there that have autism and are still very handsome.
Don't worry, even psychologists don't have us completely worked out. Nobody will probably understand what it's like, and we're the worst people in the world to ask about describing how we feel, so that doesn't help either
I would date a chick with asburgers or any other form of autism that is higher functioning, I'm patient enough and , I KNOW imma get a lot of hate for this, but I am only okay with higher functioning cause it doesn't physically affect how you look and I wouldn't have to care for them like a child. Any chick with higher functioning autism is gonna have her quirks, but for a chick I'm in love with ill help her and accept them😊
There was an autistic child in my elementary school that would mumble about how he was going to murder all the humans on earth. Also I've heard there's a form of autism that is only positive ex. Super focus, sensory blending etc.
In conclusion I am unable to generalize autism as good or bad.
I'm being completely serious
I used to date an autistic guy. However it did not work out. Even though I'm shy, I love new experiences and changes and other people. Not to mention madturbation and gaming turning more important than me. We were too different. So no, I don't think I could date an autistic guy again.
Autism itself is nothing bad in my opinion. But autistic people need someone who will understand it and who's personality will match with the auristic person.
Yeah, people with aspergers put their obsessions first. We absolutely need them to relax. We cannot survive without our obsessions and other things we use to unwind. It is a lot more work than you might realize for us to act normal, or even come close to it.
Well obviously we all need time to relax. We all need time for ourselves and I understand autistic people need it more. I just want to make it clear I was no being clingy. I wanted to have my own time and I respected his, but we were too different.
I have NLD Nonverbal Learning Disorder which is very similar to Aspergers, it affects my social life greatly it's hard to make friends, it's hard for me to understand social scenarios. And yes it does feel like a prison of the mind. NLD is loosely classified as an Autism spectrum disorder.
I have Asperger's syndrome. It's harder for me to date someone. I've been regarded as attractive before plenty of times but I truly do not believe myself. I mean, I'm decent looking. It's a gift and a curse. I a lot of the time feel that I'm too socially inept and I can't get around sometimes as a result. I'm better functioning than a variety of others I know, but there's still stuff lacking.
I'm not exactly autistic but I'm not "normal" at least that is what the specialist said when my parents took me to get checked for autism 8 years ago. She said I was "right on the line" whatever that means.
I can have a normal conversation with someone who is autistic as I can really understand how they feel around most people. I can talk to most anybody normally really. In school I never really studied but I didn't need to as I just did the work and easily got B's and A's. Didn't graduate though. I left there at the last.
Never really though about it, as long as they weren't to crazy obsessive. This one kid in my class had it and he would obsess about the time, as soon as the second hand of the clock hit a certain time ( when the class was suppose to be finished) he would stand up and announce VERY loudly that the class was over, cutting off the teacher and it was slightly annoying. But personally I wouldn't have a problem with it, they are unique if it's not too sever, and incredibly smart.
I am 25 years old and lived with Aspergers Syndrome my whole life. It is high functioning Autism on the spectrum. It affected my social life and makes it hard for me to understand social cues and social interactions. I come off as odd and weird to most people. I can't get a girlfriend either.
My SO has Asperger Syndrome, which to some psychologists falls under the umbrella of autistic spectrum. He looks normal and acts normal, his situation is not severe, but still has problems to communicate.
We have three beautiful and smart girls.
I'm not autistic but Iv had seizures as a baby and I had to have surgery for it when I was 6 and Iv been seizure free since but some of my teammates on my soccer team some of them have autism but I wouldn't date any one with autism or a disability because people with out disabilitys can speak more clearly and are easy to understand what there saying we're as some people with disabilities autism can be hard for me to understand
Autistic kids have big hearts and even bigger body parts69
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I would be quite upset if when i have a kid he/she is autistic. Not only does it cost a butt load of money but we wouldn't be able to have the same experiences.
Most people are now saying that aspies and auties are the same thing. They are not. Aspies are cool, Auties are animals who need to be put in a fricken zoo.
WHAT?
Jesus fucking christ
I have a friend who has been diagnosed with mild Asperger's syndrome (which, as you probably know, is a type of higher-functioning autism). I get on well with him. But, many other people seriously dislike him.
There's someone else here with an ASD? Cool! :-) It gets kinda lonely in here, but this gives me some assurance. So, awesome!
I'm in a wheelchair already and I need a lot of help so I don't think I would date some one with autism (but then again it depends how severe they have got it) but people I have met people with autism and they are just incredible.
It depends ont he Autistic range. Are they mentally handicapped? Are they a Genuis with aspbergers? Or do they have a few behavoirs int he Autistic range like my Friend whoiis jsut a smart yet socially awkward guy with anxiety issues?