My confidence is going down more and more?

[Anonymous]

I'll started working out in februar and everything was okay I droped 5 kg I was so happy and wanted do lose more.. because I dont honestly know why I awlays compare myself and want to be like Victoria Angels and have a butt like Jen Selter and it's not going. This month I didn't work out so much and gained 2 kilos, I feel so horible because I must eat because I'm hungry and don't wanna starve myself.. but when I eat little bit more I feel fat like really. Everything is so... Summer is coming and I just don't feel confidence. I hate my hips, want them smaller, waist also and thighs.. Please help me I don't know what do do.. I just wanna be happy but at the same time love my body and drop more pound because I really wanna be like Victoria angels and butt like jen. My measurments are:
Waist-26 in, Hips-37in, Thight-22 in, Calves-14 and breast-34 in

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And I weight 60 kg and my height is 177 cm

[Basketballchick4eva]

Firstly one should never EVER compare themselves to anyone else like ever. That is the reason as to why you are so uncomfortable with yourself. I was in the same predicament for awhile and I got to the point where I actually did starve myself and lost 10kg in a weeks, it then go to the stage where when I did want to eat I couldn't because I was vomiting up due to my stomach shrinking. The idea of life in my opinion is to be YOURSELF. Its is to achieve the best YOU! not the best Jen Selter or whoever it is. Because if your changing yourself to be like someone else there is no way you are going to be happy what you have to do is, shape yourself into the best YOU can be. Don't try and make yourself into the image of all those silly models walking down run ways, be who you were made to be not who you want to be, you won't find happiness in that.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for this, gonna read it always when I come into the situations

[Basketballchick4eva]

I just hope it helped sweetheart let me know if you ever need anyone to talk to

[Asker]

Will do, thank you ☺

[Basketballchick4eva]

Its alright!

[HyperOrphic]

You need to accept that your body is what it is: most Victoria's Secret models are on ridiculous diets or have a very hyper-specific body type.

You need to worry about getting healthy, not making you body look a certain way. You can become very sick mentally and physically otherwise.

I hate to say this, but some of us just can't make our bodies look like models unless you are the same height, weight, bone structure and have the same genetics. Just get fit, take care of yourself, and your body will be perfect as it is - which by the sounds of your measurements, it is already perfect.

[Mesonfielde]

See, your problem is not only that you are chronically underweight and have obvious body dismorphic disorder and a tendency for anorexia nervosa, but you also equate your confidence with your lack of weight.

You would be more attractive if you were about 70 kg with that height. Just fyi.

[RationalLioness]

1) There are many Vicotria Secrets models that vary in weight so stop comparing yourself to other people. Your confidence will always go down when that's done.

2) You need to stop that negative thinking. You are SUPPOSED to eat when you're hungry. As long as you're eating healthy and the appropriate amounts, you're fine.

3) Stand naked or in your underwear in front of the mirror and tell yourself 5 honest things about your body.

[RationalLioness]

And if you miss a day of exercise, so what? Don't beat yourself up about it.

[HyperOrphic]

Your answers are always so good, been seeing them all morning.

[RationalLioness]

Lol. Thanks.