Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him?

[Anonymous]

So this guy I've been sleeping with asked me if I wanted to go to the gym with him. Granted, I am overweight, but it just really surprised me. He seemed like he had though about it, and he again asked me two days afterwards. I'm not really sure what to think of this, as I feel no on has ever had this problem before. Is it a step in the right or wrong direction for a relationship with this guy?

[harambeISded]

he probably wants to show you his gainzzz and maybe get you addicted to getting fit too. Going to the gym is takes away stress too. Just a heads up if you haven't lifted in a while you will be SORE for a few days after the first workout because your body is not used to it.

[oridian]

depends, if he is a gym regular he may be worried about your health or just wants something you can do together,

If not he could be looking for support with his own desire to get fit and wants you to make the journey with him

[Gigi01234]

He may want to spend time with you. It's probably a good thing:))

[Balkano]

So you are actually very blessed. He not only cares about you, he respects you and is willing to invest in you.

He isn't just saying you need to work out. He is saying he will work out WITH you. Look, it sucks but being overweight is NOT healthy. It's not okay at all to tease someone about it but it is a real issue. You've caught a good egg here. Yes, it hurts but if you are actually medically overweight you need to look past it.

[Cody01]

Honestly if I was dating a girl I'd LOVE if she would go to the gym with me. Leg day would be so much better and I'll have a lot more motivation to train super intense.

[Quintin32]

Sounds like it could be a trust issue, or just for company.

[Quintin32]

Or that he is trying to pin point something, like trying to motivate you to shape up.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Step in the right direction in my opinion. The thing is, do YOU want to go to the gym?

[John_Doesnt]

Because he thinks you're hot.