Why did he ask me to the gym?

[mostly]

i go to a boarding school with some day students including him and we do backpacking trips in small groups every year. this year he was in my group, and we talked a bit, mostly competitive ab strength. (me challenging him to a core strength contest, him correcting my form on workouts). today he asked if i want to go to the gym w him. i said no because i prefer to work out outside, and he seemed disappointed. i kinda think in hindsight he was asking me out or something, but im not sure.

leaving this open for all to answer in case any girls have experience w something similar.

[Summeroflove]

Okay. I don’t know. Talk to him. You can always go to him and try to ask him to do something you might both enjoy more.

[whirled_up_girl]

I would think he wants to get to know you better, maybe the gym seems like a good place to hang out.

[Iron_Man]

He wants your company

[In_Trance]

Because he wants to know if you'd go to the gym

[Sugarberry37]

how is your weight

[mostly]

im about 5' and 120 lbs, but i do mma and have high muscle mass.

[mostly]

i dont appear overweight but im also not super skinny if that makes sense?

[Sugarberry37]

You must look great, I don't think you need to exercise.

[mostly]

i dont think i need to either. we aren't together, im trying to figure out if he's asking me out or trying to get me to become one of his gym bros

[Sugarberry37]

maybe he wants to get to know you