Who will you marry?

[Anonymous]

girls if you are going to marry , who will you choose a virgin or who someone who had sex before ? say why

[selfishstars]

Well, literally, I'm engaged to a man who was not a virgin when I met him.

But theoretically, it doesn't matter to me whether the person I marry is a virgin or not. I'm with someone because I love and care about them, am attracted to them (physically and personality), get along well, have similar interests and goals, etc. Whether or not they've had sex with someone else before me won't change whether or not we're a good fit or whether or not we love each other.

Honestly, I think some people place too much importance on sex and virginity. Being a virgin doesn't make someone a better person or a better fit as a husband. Having sex doesn't make someone a worse person or a worse fit as a husband.

[Anonymous]

A virgin, all my besties have had sex and that's kool for them but I'm different. I want that spiritual, emotional connection with my husband that I am his 1st and he is my 1st. Its a special thing that you share together.

Besides I think marriages have a better chance of lasting if they're both virgins because they have nothing to compare it to and because it represents more of a sacred union to one another.

And also if you only have sex with your wife you would forever associate sex with your wife...you won't be linking of that chick you skrewed in high school.