I’m a 36 year old virgin who is waiting for marriage to have sex. I’m finding that guys say it’s okay in the beginning, but seem to look at me like a challenge. When they realize I’m serious, I get dropped. Is there hope for me to find a guy who will be willing to wait for me? I don’t mean he has to be a virgin. I realize that isn’t very likely these days, and the older I get, the less likely.
I think it’s very admirable that you are willing to wait for marriage. Marriage despite what the world says is still a noble and honorable institution that should be given the upmost respect.
As a man, of course I’d marry a virgin. But I’d also marry a non-virgin. I don’t require perfection in someone. Just love both ways.
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I would never marry a woman who wasn't a virgin that being said, 36 is too old for that to matter. Id also never marry a woman who wasn't going to realistically be able to produce 4 children using natural methods. So you would already be too old for me to consider.
All good, i have lost my virginity after marriage in 30s. Dont give up. Im proud i have waited.
Yeah there are plenty, but generally you have to find them in a church or something.
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Yea virgins is better than a hos, and you should worry more about yours fertility at that age.
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Not me no I would never marry someone I haven't had sex with first
No problem in being virgin tbh.
Yes, that is still common in many cultures.
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