Just wondering, I've been thinking this a lot.
The guys I dated, I've learned more and more of what I want. I feel like th emore I know what I want, the moer likely I will get it.
For example? the first guy I dated, always only came to my place. He never invited me to his place. He made me drive everywhere, he made me pay for everything, although we both worked together and had the same income etc.
Then I realized I didn't like what he did. So the second guy I told him about the first guy and the second guy paid for my food, invited me to his place, drove me around in his car all the time. Except that he was a man whore and had a lot of morals about sleeping with 2 girls at the same time was OK, and going to whore houses was OK, and he was 3 timing me so I was not OK with that.
The third guy, he paid for my food, took me around in his car and invited me to his place. He was not a man whore and had morals about sleeping with 3 girls at the same time. So I liked him. Except that he drinked a lot and when he got drunk he called me names and said stupid things to me. When he was not drunk he also made fun of me, my acne, my job and my friends. So I could not be with him.
The fourth guy (who I am with now)... he paid for my food, is not a man whore, and is not a drunk but he talks a lot about his ex girlfriend. I am not sure I have ever encountered a man who talks so much about his ex. I take responsivility now that I realize when I talked about my 3 other exes I did not mention that I don't like it when a guy talks about their exes so I guess I gave him permission to rub his ex in my face. I only talked about 1. guy not paying for my food and always making me pay 2. guy playing me and 3 other girls and 3. guy getting drunk and calling me names a lot. so I feel like I am at fault for not saying tha tI don't like when a guy talks excessively about his ex. I mean, I should have said it right? *sigh* but I never encountered a guy who did this. I mean, what are all the rules that I should know. I mean, I feel like if I don't know the rules and I don't tell the guy then he's going t o think that I"m OK with him doing some bad things. What are all the rules? And am I right that I have to know the rules and I have to tell him the rules and if I don't then he will break them and it's OK for him to break them? What is it? Ok... sorry let me know your opinion about "the rules" and what they are.. what is it that everyone wants in a guy/girl? what are all the rules that a guy and girl should know? I feel like rule #1 that a girl should know is that she should first lay OUT the rules to the guy... and so the guy knows what lines not to cross. What do you guys think? thanks for reading. I'm sorry I'm all over the place.
The guys I dated, I've learned more and more of what I want. I feel like th emore I know what I want, the moer likely I will get it.
For example? the first guy I dated, always only came to my place. He never invited me to his place. He made me drive everywhere, he made me pay for everything, although we both worked together and had the same income etc.
Then I realized I didn't like what he did. So the second guy I told him about the first guy and the second guy paid for my food, invited me to his place, drove me around in his car all the time. Except that he was a man whore and had a lot of morals about sleeping with 2 girls at the same time was OK, and going to whore houses was OK, and he was 3 timing me so I was not OK with that.
The third guy, he paid for my food, took me around in his car and invited me to his place. He was not a man whore and had morals about sleeping with 3 girls at the same time. So I liked him. Except that he drinked a lot and when he got drunk he called me names and said stupid things to me. When he was not drunk he also made fun of me, my acne, my job and my friends. So I could not be with him.
The fourth guy (who I am with now)... he paid for my food, is not a man whore, and is not a drunk but he talks a lot about his ex girlfriend. I am not sure I have ever encountered a man who talks so much about his ex. I take responsivility now that I realize when I talked about my 3 other exes I did not mention that I don't like it when a guy talks about their exes so I guess I gave him permission to rub his ex in my face. I only talked about 1. guy not paying for my food and always making me pay 2. guy playing me and 3 other girls and 3. guy getting drunk and calling me names a lot. so I feel like I am at fault for not saying tha tI don't like when a guy talks excessively about his ex. I mean, I should have said it right? *sigh* but I never encountered a guy who did this. I mean, what are all the rules that I should know. I mean, I feel like if I don't know the rules and I don't tell the guy then he's going t o think that I"m OK with him doing some bad things. What are all the rules? And am I right that I have to know the rules and I have to tell him the rules and if I don't then he will break them and it's OK for him to break them? What is it? Ok... sorry let me know your opinion about "the rules" and what they are.. what is it that everyone wants in a guy/girl? what are all the rules that a guy and girl should know? I feel like rule #1 that a girl should know is that she should first lay OUT the rules to the guy... and so the guy knows what lines not to cross. What do you guys think? thanks for reading. I'm sorry I'm all over the place.
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