Should I ask him out?

[Anonymous]

Okay well I've recently lost a lot of weight, I won't get into all my medical nonsense since well its boring, and takes to much time to explain lol but basically the weight I gained due to a medication I have to take, is starting to come off. I have lost almost 40 pounds so far, to get to my goal weight I need to loos another 20-30 pounds (I Haven't quite decided yet, but I know it will be a minimum of 20).

At my current weight I'm getting told that I look really good and what not, and everyone says "you are not fat, seriously your not"...but I have a really hard time believing that, like I still think I look huge like I was when I was like 30 pounds heavier. So I don't want to seem stupid and believe everyone if they are just lying to make me feel good and the truth is that I actually look horrible .

the reason I'm stressing is because prom/grad at my school is coming up and I sort of want to ask this guy to go with me but I'm nervous I'm going to just look stupid for thinking I have a shot given is till have like 20ish pounds to go before I look decent so...should I bother asking, even if I'm still not quite at the weight I should be?

[Anonymous]

I think you should listen to your friends who are reassuring you that you are fine now. True friends will be honest with you. If you still think you look like you did with 30 extra pounds there is something wrong there.. You seem to have a diluted perception of yourself. And that's never fun!

Stop thinking about how when you lose that weight, such and such will happen... and life will be easier... because that's not true. If you want to ask a guy to prom... Do it. What have you got to lose?

The worst that could happen is him saying no. Even so, who cares? At least you'll never have to wonder what if.

Take care of yourself and good luck

x

[NobodyCares101]

First of all I doubt you are that over weight and if the guy turns you down because of your weight then he's an asshole. Why would you want to go out with an asshole. If you think you have a chance go for it but if you two don't really talk don't be surprised if he turns you down. If you two are already conversing then you have a shot, just take it

[Drake742]

If he likes you he will go with you not matter what you weigh, and you'll have so much more fun once you accept that.

Good Luck and go for it

[SophieaWoods11]

if you like him then go for it! good luck girl!

[ngpdreamteam2k4]

your call

[Anonymous]

GO FOR IT!