Can a guy be chunky/fat?

[Anonymous]

and still be attractive?

What if a guy has some fat but he is not like huge?

Ladies I would appreciate your input

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+1 y

I will admit being a bit overweight is my biggest insecurity.

It stifles my confidence to the degree in which I have developed an opinion that I must lose weight in order to be confident in myself.

Whenever I try to have confidence I come across as full of myself.

[KxMiss125]

I like guys a little thicker/heavier/chunky(but not obese), what ever you want to call it lol! If he has a cute face-nice eyes- good personality, it overrides his body for me =] I like the guys bigger because I feel they can protect me better than scrawny guys, plus like other girls said they are great to cuddle with. Also heavier guys get jacked easier than scrawny guys if they go to the gym because all they have to do is define the muscle while scrawny guys need to GET muscle. Hope this helps =]

[SashaSilent]

I actually fattened up my boyfriend a bit. He was scrawny when I met him and I prefer them stockier, all the better to snuggle with.

Having said that though, if they're hugely overweight, it is a turn off. Purely because of the affect it would have on your life together, not only on his level of confidence, but also health wise and activity wise.

[NerdInDenial]

Looks initially will attract women, but other factors play a bigger role in sustaining a relationship with a woman according to the Science of sex appeal. I feel your pain; it's hard to lose fat. For me, I love food.

[Anonymous]

so many similar questions like this bro they just gonna tell yah yes and say confidence matters more

[udolipixie]

This

[dryad]

Each girl has her limits. Some will stop at 5lbs overweight, others 700lbs. To each her own.

I, myself, prefer guys who are in shape, well toned and athletic. Why? I put an effort to stay in shape, not just for health reasons, but to excite guys. If a guy isn't going to put the same effort into his body as I than we're not going to last.

[Anonymous]

Your weight doesn't stifle you and make you insecure. YOU stifle YOU and make your weight out to be the enemy. If you were confident, you wouldn't care if you're chunky and fat.

But with that said, being chunky, fat, overweight, you name it isn't healthy. I couldn't date a guy who was chunky or fat. I would never be attracted to anyone who didn't take their health and appearance seriously.

[ShannonMc]

Ya!, they are so much more comfy ;) They seem to not be as cocky as ripped guys anyways.

[Sassy35242]

Haha yes. I have a crush on this guy at my school that's a little chubby. Having confidence also plays a huge part in being attractive :D

[Corrupt_Others]

definitely! I've dated a couple. I prefer them to be on the chubbier side

[NerdInDenial]

Yay...I don't have lose any more fat!

[Corrupt_Others]

lol

[udolipixie]

No to me.

To others yes.

[Lamnad]

I have wondered this also.

[Broken_InSide]

i've seen a lot of attractive chunky men :).

[Anonymous]

yup. of course :)