Three weeks ago, I had a miscarriage. I was six weeks pregnant. I live in Texas, a state that has effectively banned abortions.You can read the whole Twitter thread to see all the details. ill highlight one part for you though:
A thread about what it is to cease to be pregnant in a state where abortions are banned:— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022
The doctor asked me about pregnancy, going into consolation mode. They asked me if I’d been trying to get pregnant, if I’d been pregnant before. I told them I had been pregnant, once before.— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022
“How many kids?” they asked
“None,” I answered.
“Miscarriage?” they asked.
“Abortion,” I answered.
And the conversation shifted dramatically.— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022
I’d had an abortion when I was 19. Upon hearing that, this doctor in Texas rattled through a list of drugs, asking if I’d taken any of them in the last six weeks. They asked about my activities, what I’d been doing, if I’d intentionally injured myself.— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022
Intentionally or not, it felt like I’d become a suspect in the death of something I didn’t know existed.— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022
Eventually, it stopped. They were satisfied that I hadn’t known I was pregnant and induced an illegal abortion in Texas. I left, though not without the fear that because I’d gone for medical help, I’d now be reported, per Texas law.— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022
I think about if I answered the doctor’s questions correctly, if I convinced them I didn’t cause it intentionally, if my past decision was enough to condemn me in the eyes of the state of Texas.— Janneke Parrish (@JannekeParrish) May 9, 2022