Girls, What size upper lats do you think are best on a man?

[Anonymous]

I have started lifting weights recently. Bodybuilders tend to overdo it and get too big. I prefer to find a stopping point where it would be most appealing to women. I was wondering, how big of upper lats do you prefer? If you're not sure what that is, here it is circled in yellow:

If you could provide a picture of a man with good ones, that would be even better. Please don't show someone famous as that could lead to bias.

[Anonymous]

Those are the trapezius or traps muscle. I think it’ll look good as long as it blends nicely with your neck and shoulders.

[Ruenella_]

This.

[Asker]

Ok. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

That guy looks so gross. Don't do that to yourself.

[Asker]

Yes, I know.