So you want to avoid attention of men, but you're asking a question anonymously while posting a picture of yourself? I call bullshit on this one.
I'm gonna give you a great suggestion. Ready? Workout at home, or go to a women's only gym. I'm honestly sick and tired of hearing people complain about made up stuff while pictures for attention, it happens so frequently on this website. Not only are you too young for this shit, but it's absolutely annoying and it ruins the quality of the website.
99.9% men go to the gym to EXCERCISE. I cannot tell you how many annoying women I've had in my gym making tictoks or purposely going to the side where most the guys are to "stretch". I've even had a time where I girl was BELLYDANCING in the gym. I cannot make this one up.
STOP doing stupid shit for ATTENTION. Life is so much easier if you are lowkey, it is. You don't have to worry about being on the spotlight all the time. You're just one of 7.8 billion humans, and not everything has to be about you all the time. OK?
If this story was legit (that's a big IF) then just report the guy to the security and move on. Why ask about "how to avoid creepy men"? Like we have any tips to tell you. Like we can do a litmus test or an X-ray scan on who is planning on acting weird and who isn't? Report the dude and he gets kicked out, then carry on as usual. If it repeats, change the gym. Simple.
Oh no! Yikes! I mean one good answer is to not be there that late at night. Like I get wanting to avoid the people but creeps are nuts and they don’t wait to get permission for anything. Secondly I would get a mini taser or some pepper spray to clip to your key chain just to use in case someone does fallow you home again. Last thing I would say! Is drive the damn car! What kind of a sexy little lady like you goes walking around with all that ass? First off you are way too young to be walking around with all that ass anyways and secondly no body should be walking g around at night with that much ass unless they trying to get snow plowed.
Well I have two suggestions, one is the LAST time I would want to go to the gym is late at night when there are not many people around bc if you end up with the one creep, you are stuck, if you are there with 30 people and 1 is a creep it will prob. be ok. The second suggestion is that it is good to have friends there or at least people you know and talk with, it can be a gym buddy who you go there with, or it can be several girls/women you talk with when you run into them there, the reason is again to avoid being alone there. Having said that, you will probably get stared at sometimes. I swear (but can't prove it) that there is a guy who moves to the weight lifting machine behind my treadmill every time we are both there and stares at me the whole time, I can somewhat see him reflected in the window depending on how the light is, I put in earbuds and try to ignore it. Good luck and stay safe!!
I work out a lot myself, but the late night thing is probably not a good idea. I've had a couple instances of creepy guys watching me, both times I notified Staff at the facility and they handled the problem without involving me in any way. I really don't have a problem with guys checking me out, I get it, but if they stare or "innocently" follow me around that's definitely not OK, and then it's time to get the Staff involved.
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Lol so why post a pic of what you look like physically if you’re trying to avoid attention? But I bet if you weren’t getting attention you’d still be complaining. I’d stop going so late for one thing, plus walking home by yourself as an underage girl, not a very smart thing. Not that being over 18 would stop something from happening, just jot a smart thing. I’m glad you’re trying g to avoid unwanted attention by making sure we all see your ass lol workout at home. I go to the gym to workout. Don’t flatter yourself, not all men are checking you out. Damn no matter what it is in life women always complain about something.
So you post a butt picture...
Pretends to not want attention and seeks attention in the same go... that's all I see.
Admit it... you're just attention whoring and the story is fake.
Feel free to send me nudes though. I like what I see. 😂
I do not have experience with this because the gym I frequent is a college gym and I went there last in September. If I were you and I wanted to keep working out, I would ask for personal to take me to my car after working out. So then you can build a rapport and tell them about the people at the gym who are bothering you if you don't feel comfortable telling them already.
Sorry to hear. I honestly don´t know have used other times of the day before to work out like morning shifts or mid-day? Because I´m not sure if you could completely avoid such a situation but there might be other times that are better. Or have you asked friends or other girls at the gym about their experiences? Because they could give you better advice.
Another chance could be if you look for a work out buddy since some guys might stop if you´re not alone.
If you think night is not safe, you could try early morning or some other time.
At gym, there always will be someone to stare at girls. If someone's staring at you, It just means you're hot.
I don't know why you included your pic for this question lol.
I work out at the local YMCA and there are not many creepy guys there. i used to belong to a gym that had a lot of creepy guys. There were guys who hardly worked out at all and just wandered around trying to talk to girls. Another guy used to smell like booze, expecislly on the weekends. You did not want to light any matches around him.
Another guy used to brag about how he had to have his shirts custom made because of his build.
I agree that guys like that are really annoying.
do you play any sports in school? i took a weightlifting class so i had free use of the gym at school. if you talk to the coaches there i'm sure you could work out there and avoid the creepy old men for younger creepy men?
You've got to go during safer hours. It's just that simple. You must protect yourself. If there are other people around, there's a pretty good chance that they're not gonna be as creepy as the people who are there late.
Go to an all-girls gym. You only have to worry about the trannies there. That or get a home gym. That way when you get tired of working out you can sell it at a garage sale like every other person that bought home gym buyer does.
You're a young attractive girl. I think if most people knew you were under 18, you'd see a lot less attention. However, that's temporary, since they'd only back off until you turn 18. Guys are going to be interested in your body, and since women's workout clothes are often skintight, you will be checked out at the gym due to your clothing
Anything that I'd suggest would probably be pointless.
The only thing that would lower the chance of "attracting" such guys is to be unfuckable.
How would someone know you were on your phone with your Dad. Was he literally dry humping you? I call bullshit.
Post a pic of your ass & complain about people looking at you. 🖕
hmmm... there's no better idea than doing something really late at night. what could possibly go wrong?
Hell you doing walking home late at night? You asking for trouble.
Anyways, you can avoid weirdos and creeps at the gym. Some of them are just going to be there.
You would tell the staff at the gym. Curious with the post you just made and then post this pic along with it. Doesn’t seem right.
Probably all in your head but stay vigilant
Given the current climate in the nation, all I can say is good luck.
Is there an all female gym where you live? That would be the best solution to your problem. If you're working out with other people around, there are always gonna be creeps
The fact that you had to post a picture showing your ass like this makes me think this is really just about getting attention.
Otherwise, if there is an actual issue then just report the guys to the people working there, or change gyms
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