I've been trying to look for a job since leaving college in June and me and my serious, somber boyfriend have been arguing about money! I'm more of a happy, less serious person and he hates that. He atmits he looks down on me and prefers a girl with a profession, yet I've become a qualified hairdresser (but can't get work). He says he won't live with me or marry me because of not earning. I feel hopeless and pathetic. He calls me a "chav" too which hurts me. In other words, low class. I feel stupid because even if I get a job, he says I won't keep it (I'm not good at keeping jobs) and even if I ever get to prove him completely wrong, it would be like it's never good enough for him! I don't know what to do? I love him but sometimes is "changing for him" even worth it. I want a job but feel he doesn't support me. It's the same when I lose weight he says he would dump me if I lost any more! Help!
My boyfriend looks down on me for not having a job?
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