I keep getting mistaken for a guy and I'm a biological female! It's giving me really bad mental health. Do you think losing weight would help this?

[Anonymous]

I'm kind of overweight and I have naturally broad shoulders but the extra weight is making then stick out even more and I just look horrible. I've never been pretty but I'm also depressed hence why I'm big but getting mistaken for a guy all the time is absolutely horrible and I want it to stop. I can't afford surgery so will getting really skinny help? I'm desperate 🥺

[Anonymous]

Maybe do your hair more, try to appear more feminine, find out what your body type is then dress to fit your body type (If you have broad shoulders then you might be an inverted triangle for example).

Losing weight will definitely help but there’s also a bunch of things that you can do that’ll give instant results! Like wearing more feminine clothing/hairstyle/makeup/jewelry, make sure you smell nice, wearing feminine colors, grow out your hair, do your nails, etc ✨

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck babe!

[PeachyPie93]

Dress more girly, get longer hair if you don't already and yes working out will help your female body parts get more accentuated. Love yourself a little and try to be attractive, you would be surprised what a few changes can do.

[Asker]

Thank you 🥺

[PeachyPie93]

You are welcome, cheer up girl! :D

[boggboss]

Without seeing what u look like this is impossible to answer

[jahaims]

Getting healthy makes anyone more attractive obviously

[pascal_climbs]

What about your hairstyle and clothing? That can make you appear female easily. What you call overweight? Height, weight, measures, ... ? We can only give advise when we see numbers and have an idea of your present look

[Zestyassmf1997]

Hmmm…try growing your hair out.

[Imbraylen]

Calorie deficit